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hand job question!
okay, so yesterday i was giving my boyfriend mine and his first hand job, and he said i was doing great, but he never cummed. he said it wasn't my fault and that he was really close but it never happened becaue my hands got tired.
why didn't he cum? and what can i do next time to make sure he cums?
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Honestly... When I'm about to you know x) I go a I like it a lot faster right before I shoot.. I know that sounds really messed up but you did ask =) so.. anyway... when you think he should be ready start going faster... and the head... is the most sensitive... see where he likes it...
Hope I helped.. once again... wasn't here to be a perv. just trying to help
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I agree with Neener.
She has every right to be asking this, Amber, and Katie, it's just rude to be insulting the people who need help on here.
Most guys don't cum their first time they get a handjob, they're nervous, and afraid it will gross you out a lot of times. Make sure he knows that you're completely comfortable with him, and ask him to tell you exactly what he likes, so that you know just what to do! It'll help both of you a ton.
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Hey now, Amber. They have every right to ask that question here, and it's classified under the right area.
And besides, I know that *I* wouldn't like to discuss this with my mother.
Anyway. The last piece of advice is a good way to go, hun. Switch it up, or your arms get all cramped and tired. And you don't have to limit yourself, either. Use both hands. If you're up to it, oral could be the way to go. There's really no wrong way to do it, (although at some point it kind of takes a step away from the term "handjob", but whatever) just do whatever you are comfortable with. Try new things and figure out what works.
It might be your boyfriend as well, keep in mind. Being nervous, or having too much on your mind can keep an orgasm at bay pretty easily.
I hope this helped.....uh..have fun. XD
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lol prudes.
switch hands, darlin.
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Well, i dont know why you would be asking that kind of question on here. Why dont you go ask your mother or something. Cause thats DISGUSTING and no one wants to talk about your boyfriends private area!
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