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so CONFUSED!!


Question Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 1:45 pm

Okay!!

My friend, I really love him. I told him that... and at that time... he had a girl friend. He said that he liked me as a friend nothing more. Now, his girl friend broke up with him. I think he's really upset. I told him that I am sorry about everything. I told him he can call me if he wants someone to talk to. I REALLY care about him. I want to date him... but... I don't think he'll say yes. What SHOULD I do?? PLEASE ANYONE HELP!


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Additional info, added Tuesday March 10 2009, 4:22 pm:
Okay... my friend Missy asked him out for me ( I didn't know she did!!) He told her "idk". They were texting each other. Ugg...I wish she didn't because I was waiting for him to feel better . I've been calling him. We only talk about 5 minutes...he always seems to be busy. His answer was no... he said I like him for his looks only...I wrote him a note TELLING him exactly how I felt about him. He told me he understands but he still just wants to be friends. I asked him if that could change and he said "I guess...". So, what should I do now? I am thinking about trying to learn more about him. So, he can tell that I am interested. What do you guys think?? Do... you think if I wait and be patient he'll go out with me?? PLEASE ANYONE HELP!.

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TheMaster answered Thursday March 12 2009, 1:46 am:
Find out if your zodiac signs are compatable. Unfourtunatly for you, you can't MAKE someone love you in a romantic way. It takes two people to be "In Love".
Give the guy some time. Let him know you are available but don't be pushy. Don't contact him every day but invite him to do something, a movie maybe.
Learning more about him is OK but don't get overinfatuated. Try to have fun with your life and try not to dwell solely on this one guy.
Sometimes guys want what is harder to get. If he sees you having fun and he knows you like him he will either come around or he won't.
Don't hinge your life on the outcome.
GL TheMaster

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livilove answered Sunday March 8 2009, 11:17 pm:
write him a note and there way better people there he'll forgive you if u get his girlfriend back

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thelaura answered Sunday March 8 2009, 9:55 pm:
As much as it sucks, you can't physically make someone be with you.
You've told him how you feel previously and I don't suggest doing it again just yet because he will take some time to heal, for obvious reasons.
For now though, show him you can be a good friend and be there for him in his time of need. Offer to hang out with him, talk to him about his problems, why don't YOU call him, etc.
Once he's over the break up, try again. and if it's a no, at least you know you tried.

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Andreaaaa answered Sunday March 8 2009, 9:47 pm:
Everything takes time, but sometimes things just aren't meant to be and that's ok because someday someone will show you WHY it wasn't meant to be with anyone else. If you really care, then you need to know you CAN NOT rush things like that. Right now he doesn't feel the same way. You best bet is to understand that and back off of that for a while. Look for another possible boyfriend.

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