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sexual harrassment?
if a guy begs for a bj after youve already said, sorry but no, considered sexual harassment? is it weird if he occasionally keeps on bringing up the fact that he wants to have anal sex with me after i keep saying sorry i dont think thats gonna happen. but then he just says yeah one time in real quick your not gonna want it out.
and then at the end of our conversation, after ive already said a few times before that i dont think doing that is a good idea, he brought it up again and said ugh im def doin you in your ass.
i may see him soon and im kind of wondering if these are signs that he will try and do it and then not stop..this goes the same with the bj [he has asked for that a lot more]and whenever i say sorry but i dont think thats happening, he continues to beg
p.s. we arent even togethor so of course doing that would make no sense
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He might think that you are just being shy about it because of your polite answers. You saying "I don't *think* that is happening" fuels his hope. I understand that you are probably just trying to be nice, but with some guys you have to tell them straight up and seriously.
In my opinion, this guy sounds like a jerk. I am glad for you that you aren't exactly dating him because he does not seem very respectful of you, and you don't deserve that.
If you are feeling uncomfortable, I recommend staying away from this guy. I wouldn't want you to get put in a bad situation with him.
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Yeah, it is.
Tell your parents, then probably a school counselor.
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Get into a relationship with a guy fast even if you not sure about him. And make sure he's a big black guy so ur harrasser with scared shitless (kinda not really but you get my point)
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It may or may not be sexual harassment.
It is definitely not so smart to keep on being friendly to such a person who may be harassing you!
Stop saying 'Um no.' and 'Probably not.' He might be confused and think you are "playing hard to get" or something like that. Stop being polite (He isn't being polite!). Be clear.
"No. That is never going to happen AND I think it's rude and offensive that you keep bringing it up."
"I don't appreciate these conversations. Stop it."
Maybe even "Stop being an asshole. I told you no. Deal with it."
Stop teaching him that it is acceptable to treat you this way. Start teaching him some respect by putting your foot down about what kind of behavior you find unacceptable.
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