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dream about sex
does it mean something when you dream about sex or doing dirty things? i have a boyfriend and i know im not ready for sex im only 16 but i still have those dreams...i want to tell him cause we always share our dreams about each other no matter how crazy they are but i dont know about this...advice?
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It is most normal that you think about these things, especially at this age. This does not mean you have to do the things you dream about anytime soon, until you are ready.
He probably has has similar dreams and thoughts, and if you think it is possible to talk about it together without that leading to anything, go for it. There are some things people like to keep to themselves though, for the time being. If it makes you uncomfortable, you do not need to share.
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Dreams are thought pictures. When you dream you often see what you fear, have thought about, have curiosity about or have been thinking of. They're also based on desires as well. Hormones plays a minor role too. It's all perfectly normal for both male and female teens to have sexual kind of dreams.
Don't worry you aren't a pervert and he won't think so. Odds are he has them too. It wouldn't hurt to tell him but you would have to tell him upfront that sex is out. Don't fret over this as it's nothing. In fact if you weren't or never had any I would say that's strange. Happens to us all. Trust me.
Your brain doesn't turn off during sleep. It's processing a million thoughts from fear, anger, doubt, curiosity, sex etc etc. It then creates pictures as you dream. It usually means nothing and cannot hurt you or affect your outside world. It's the subconscious mind that contains everything you want to suppress to the surface in the form of a dream.
It's quite common for people to feel aroused now and then as they dream or release bodily fluids (male and female) too. Just know that you are A-okay.
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Hey, well that's completely normal so no worries. :)
Heck, I'm not ready for sex either, I'm 16 too, but I've had my own share of dreams. It's clearly hormonal. Anyways, if you trust your boyfriend and explain to him that you aren't ready for sex but still had the dreams then I'm sure the two of you could laugh about it. I say that honesty is good so unless it makes you too completely uncomfortable to speak of it, then I say there's no harm in telling him.
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