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okay so i asked a earlier question about my hot teacher well i have more to say. so i have had this teacher for a hole tri now and its almost over :[ like this teacher is super sexy and if i was his age i would go for him in a heart beat. well its to the point now that my teahcer knows i think he is sexy and that i have a crush on him cause i like flirt with him in class but he completly flirts back :] i seriously think about him all the time and like have dreams about him. theres times in his class i have to stare down the whole time because when i look at him i cant help but smile :] i just want to like hang out with him but i cant cause he is my teacher and he is a little older than me haha, what do i do? like is this super strange and weridd?
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It is okay to thing your teacher is hot, but you can't obsess over him. He could lose his job, go to jail and then he would most likely never get another teaching job. I hope he is flirting like you said because a student could report or another teacher could hear it or about it and get him to legal trouble as I said above.
But plenty of people have had crushes on their teacher, you aren't the first and won't be the last.
You could try to transfer to another class if your school is sort of like mine. You could try to focus on something else, maybe speak to a couselor or a school guidance counselor if needed.
Caution: I wouldn't tell to many people about hime flirting with you if you do like this teacher.
--I hope I helped.
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You know what you're flirting with?
You're flirting with his ruined life.
You're flirting with the end to his career.
You're flirting with his arrest, his trial, possibly his imprisonment.
You're flirting with the things that happen to people charged with any kind of rape happening to him if he is imprisoned.
You're flirting with the damage to his family this could cause.
You're flirting with his reputation among his friends and peers.
You're flirting with your own reputation around school.
You're flirting with the damage you could cause your parents and family if they found out about you two.
You're flirting with the damage to friendships you would cause by being this kind of person and ruining or taking the chance of ruining this guy's life.
When you flirt with him, you're flirting with all these things.
Stop. Now. If you two like each other, wait until you've graduated, THEN show interest. In the mean time, do not encourage him, put him out of your mind, and keep this to yourself. Its not uncommon for kids to have crushes with their teachers. Its a terrible, stupid, dangerous idea to do anything about it.
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Oh god no, it's not strange. I'm in college and we get some of the hottest professors. The whole attraction is the unattainable-ness of it. You know it's forbidden and you can't have him, so it builds this huge fire and it's just so hot. I know how this feels. You can be flirty and have fun with it all, but don't act on this crush. I've had a really horrible incident with that, and my teacher was married :O So, just remember the semester or year will be over and you'll have to move on. But relax, it's normal. You'll get over this crush the day after class is all over with, trust me! :]
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