Question Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 12:52 am
So, me and my boyfriends mom get along pretty good. Except she walked in with me and my boyfriend with me on top of my boyfriend and we were kissing in bed in the dark.
We are a very serious relationship, and I'm never allowed to his house again :(
Sami143 answered Wednesday February 25 2009, 6:03 pm: Ok so i have had a situation just like this except me and my boyfriend cant hang out at all anymore. But we still make it work. Just make sure you spend every moment that you can with him and try apologizing to his mom and she might let you come over again. Hope i helped =] [ Sami143's advice column | Ask Sami143 A Question ]
ohitscassidy answered Tuesday February 24 2009, 6:49 pm: try to say sorry to her, and theres not much you can do at this time. You need to let her get over it and she will in time. For now theres always the phone, myspace or go on a date somewhere like the movies since your in public his mom might take comfort on the fact your in public and probably wont do anything. [ ohitscassidy's advice column | Ask ohitscassidy A Question ]
Samcia answered Tuesday February 24 2009, 12:00 pm: She was probably put in a very awkward position seeing her son with you like that. Respect her & her decision, apologize if you can, and give it some time. If you two are as close as you say then the relationship will still be fine. This would just be a little uncomfortable bump in the road. In time, everything gets better. [ Samcia's advice column | Ask Samcia A Question ]
Razhie answered Tuesday February 24 2009, 9:41 am: Apologize. Not because what you did was wrong, but because you made her uncomfortable and put her in an awkward position.
Don't fight to be allowed in the home again, don't argue or judge, just call, or write her a note, apologizing for upsetting her.
Then find other places to hang out with your boyfriend.
Respect her rule and show her that you respect her opinion and feelings by apologizing (even if you don't agree with her position on this), she will probably soften up in a few weeks. She just needs some time to process what happened and remember that she doesn't hate you. Be respectful and obedient, and give her that time. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
sexycani answered Tuesday February 24 2009, 8:43 am: Well you can't get on the boys moms bad side and you got there. I'd say just wait awaile and she'l get over it. You need to ain her trust back [ sexycani's advice column | Ask sexycani A Question ]
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