My friend is having an affair with a married man. I found out he is also having an affair with another woman at the same time. Should I tell my friend? She keeps suggesting this man loves her and will leave his wife for her; however, I know he is giving the other woman the same line. He bought my friend a clock radio for Christmas, he bought the other woman a brand new Mustang. What should I do???
ediemarie answered Saturday January 17 2009, 11:01 am: Hi,
you should definitely tell your friend that she is making a costly mistake and to end the relationship. First of all, they never leave their wives. It's just a line to string her along. The fact that he is cheating on his wife with who knows how many women shows his character. Ask her if she is sure she wants to be with someone who is so disrespectful. Her self-esteem must be really low for her to be involved with such a person.
She deserves to be with someone who only has her on his mind. Definitely tell her what you find out. It may hurt her now and she may even call you a liar, but she will be better off in the long run and she will thank you for it. You owe it to her to tell her the truth. I hope this helped.
Good luck,
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Disconnected answered Saturday January 17 2009, 10:01 am: Let your friend know the truth. This guy is an asshole, and he's just going to hurt your friend.
Tell her the truth, or let her find out for herself by going to him and saying ''I saw you with another woman'' or something similar.
If your friend finds out after being with him for a very long time, she's going to be emotionally hurt for a very long time, and she may be scared of relationships.
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