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I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
Well I'm supposed to be moving in February and I told my friends and they been sad and crying and I cant take the sadness I dont want to leave but I have no choice...what can I do what do I say...I need help badly...they made me cry I really love my friends...ughhhh I dont know what to do...please someone help me
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Keep in touch with them. Just remember that you will make new friends and so will they.
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I moved on from high school this summer...so i know how you guys feel.
How far are you from each other? We're 5-30 minutes away so it's not that bad, but because of different schools we don't see each other much. We send cards to each other with pictures and stuff for holidays (like christmas). We also email and instant message daily. When you move, send a short email to them all everyday letting them know how much you miss them and what you did today, etc. We're also on facebook and myspace, so we share pictures.
We sometimes use the microphone and webcam to have video conferences and stuff.
One of the best things to do, is to spend as much time as you can now. Chances are you'll make new friends, but the old ones are ALWAYS special. Go to the movies, stay home and have sleepovers AND constantly talk!
In reference to 'what to say to them'. Well you just have to assure them that you'll always be friends. Even if you guys aren't best friends for life, you'll be good friends no matter what. Write them meaningful letters and send them (even before you leave). Promise them you'll visit when you can, even if it won't be for a while.
And don't hold back the tears, it'll just make it worst when you move. Cry with them and let them cry with you.
Good luck!
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ohhh...how sad. I feel for you and your friends. However, you can make the transistion a little easier, and in this case tears are not a bad thing. Make a pact with your friends to stay in touch via telephone, email or even by writing letters. Is it possible to visit each other when school is out for the summer? Take a lot of pictures of you and your friends before you go and put together little memory books for them as keepsakes. Or give them a friendship bracelet or other piece of jewlery so they can still have a part of you close to them.
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