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Trying to conceive
I am 17 almost 18 and me and my fiancee' have been trying to get pregnant for almost a year and we have tried everything we had sex everyday that i was ovulating and i still havent got pregnant. Can anyone give us any advice on how to get pregnant or why im not getting pregnant?
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Did you say he's your fiancee'? Why not wait until you two get married and establish a home before having a baby? I know it sounds "old school", but it worked for generations in the past.It makes for a better home for the child.
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As a healthcare giver, who has worked in obstetrics I am going to advise you to see an OB/GYN physician.
Obviously you seem very determined to have a baby at such a young age, but I certainly hope the physician can give you a complete exam and some good advice. Which I would consider to be the reasons you should wait and not focus on fertility, pregnancy or raising a child at this time in your life.
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We need more information, we aren't mind readers or doctors. My first bit of advice is for both of you to be checked, to make sure it's possible for you to conceive.
On the other hand, there's plenty of factors which could lower your chance and in reality, it has only almost been a year - it's the luck of the draw. Some people can get pregnant first time, whereas others can take years.
Do either of you:
Smoke?
Suffer from stress?
Drink?
Have an unhealthy diet?
There's tonnes of things to think about (alot more than stated above) - it's not as simple as just having sex for some people, unfortunately.
If you get tests and both come back clear, just be patient.
I'd also like to point out, don't have sex every single day and don't just make it about trying to conceive. Enjoy it, don't put your body under stress and take it as it comes. Your time will come.
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it sometimes takes a long time for someone to get pregnant depending on who they are. another thing is you or your partner might not be albe to carry a child or have one...it could be a medical thing so i think you and your fiance should go to a clinic to see whats going on.
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