I have had an extremely event- filled life with many extreme high and low points. I've even learned a few lessons along the way, and I hope that I can be of service to anyone who asks. I have definite opinions on quite a few relationship topics, especially- but not limited to- child development. Please feel free to ask me, as all 3 of my children (raised with very few resources)are extremely well adjusted young adults.
Also, I've been divorced 3 times, so I know pretty much what NOT to do in a married relationship.
Gender: Male
Location: alabama
Occupation: salesman
Age: 53
Member Since: November 18, 2008
Answers: 9
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Let's just say that my ex-girlfriend has done plenty of evil things to me, including messing with my current love life, and attempting to get me banned from places for "stalking" even though they were my hangouts before I met her, and such.
And at the moment, an opportunity to get back at her without consequence has arisen. Keep in mind, it's nothing illegal or life-threatening, more like a really really elaborate prank.
Some of my friends think I'm within my rights to play said prank, while others think that I should just not do it.
The problem is, I don't think the woman is going to back the hell off me unless I do something.
So, should I do the deed, or just try and tolerate the bulls**t? (link)
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Sounds like you have a resentment. I should know, I've had lots of them. Resentments are like drinking rat poison and waiting for the other person to die.Get on with life!!
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When a guy calls you a cunt, what does that mean? (link)
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next time a guy calls you that,say ' you are what you eat, dick!'
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Okay, I know this is a seemingly weird question to ask, but I will ask it anyway, and hope that it is only older individuals who can offer helpful answers who will respond. I dated a guy two years ago and have remained very close friends with him since, but we broke up because he could not be as affectionate as I wanted him to be, which drove me crazy. So now I'm thinking about the bigger picture, and how when I'm around him everything else seems to fit when we're friends, and I'm wondering this. Do I consider marrying him in the future because we get along so well but possibly sacrifice a booming sex life? I have to say, when it comes to girls, I'm about the only one who understands him, or who tolerates him, and I know he cares deeply for me, but I guess I just know I'd be happy spending the rest of my life around him every day, but don't know if that means with him as my husband. He's just a friend I never want to lose, so I can't tell if I want to keep him around intrinsically or just so I have my life planned. I love him a lot, but would that be settling? Help! I can send more info if you're interested too. (link)
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maybe he's gay
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I am 17 almost 18 and me and my fiancee' have been trying to get pregnant for almost a year and we have tried everything we had sex everyday that i was ovulating and i still havent got pregnant. Can anyone give us any advice on how to get pregnant or why im not getting pregnant? (link)
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Did you say he's your fiancee'? Why not wait until you two get married and establish a home before having a baby? I know it sounds "old school", but it worked for generations in the past.It makes for a better home for the child.
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HII :]
I had my baby April 14th :]
We named her Riley James Court.
I ended up moving in with my boyfriend in feb.
we are getting married in August.
im super excited.
but i need some wedding tips and ideass.
help me out.
thanksss. (link)
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Get married at the courthouse. Use whatever money that would have been spent on a wedding to begin a fruitful family life. Weddings don't make marriages anyway- people do.Either way you go about it, the result will be the same. You will be married.
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Ok, so my hair stylist told me I shouldn't use baby shampoo on my kids. She claims that tear-free soaps and shampoos contain Novocaine or something similar.
Now, I'm no fool. I go home, first thing I do is read the ingredients listed on the bottle of shampoo. Nowhere do I find Novocaine, or any other "caine" type of ingredient.
So I tried looking it up online. Someone asked it on Yahoo Answers and said it also contains formaldehyde.
What the...? Come on! Give me a break, already, ok?
I'm not very internet savvy, so that's the best I could come up with. So please don't tell me to Google.
I don't need to have this concern about the soap that goes into the eyes, noses, ears, and sometimes mouths of my children!
Please! Somebody give me a FACT.
Solid Fact.
Links to reliable sources GREATLY APPRECIATED.
Don't worry that you may do looking for nothing- I do rate accordingly.
Thanks for your help...
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I've been a salesman for most of my adult life, and I know quite a few tricks, as well as common sense approaches to problems. I'm quite sure that your hairstylist has EXACTLY the product needed to solve this so-called problem, which by the way, was not a problem until the stylist created it.
Ask yourself this very basic question- have the makers of baby shampoo stayed in business ALL these years by adding poisons, or anything harmful for that matter, to their products? The answer is a resounding NO!!!!!
It sounds like a certain stylist is trying to sell OVERPRICED products by using two very basic human emotions- FEAR and GUILT.Maybe instead of changing shampoo you need to change stylists.
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My boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for over a year now. I haven't been on birth control in over a year and he never wears a condom but still, nothing! I'm just wondering for all you mothers out there, is there something we are doing wrong? I've heard you can only get pregnant when an egg releases and that they only release on your period. Does that mean that if we have sex on my period, I'll get pregnant? I don't smoke or drink or anything harmful. I've talked to doctors, but they just gave me vitamins to take. I'm not sure what we're doing wrong =/ Any help please! Thanks in advance. (link)
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If you really want to get pregnant, maybe you should think about changing your relationship.You need to make a major change in your boyfriend.Try to turn him into your HUSBAND before having a child.There is still room in todays' society for things such as HONOR,RESPONSIBILITY,and RESPECT. Just a thought.
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I have always wondered exactly what religious/spiritual catagory I fall into. I believe in a higher being but I do not believe in organized religion. Where would I fall? (link)
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Categorizing religion/spirituality can be a very hurtful thing to some people, especially those who are skeptical or undecided as to which path-if any-to follow. It is true that deep down inside almost every human being has a fundamental idea of God, or a Higher Power.
One way to start your journey is very basic. One school of thought suggests that the simpler we form our opinions and ideas the easier they are to comprehend. Try this simple exercise- get a legal pad and draw a line down the middle. On the left side, simply make the heading God is. On the right side, God isn't.When you are through, cut it in half and discard the right side. What's left is your basic concept of God, as you understand Him.Whether you believe in prayer or not, try this exercise.Read your list every morning and simply pray, or just talk to the basic idea you have formed.Do this for two weeks, religiously (pun intended), and just find out if there is any difference in the way you think, feel, and act toward other people. Good luck !
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Okay, so my boyfriend wants to have sex with me, and I do too but im not going to because i don't want to get pregnant. So we agreed on dry sex (sex but with udnies on) ha. but anyways is there anyway that I can get pregnant? Or anything that I should look out for?
Thanks for your help!
And I rate every answer!
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how old are you, young lady?
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