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what age should i be
what is a good age for me to have sex and not be to young but not be too old?
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<b>There is no "appropriate" age.
Whenever you feel ready, and your partner is comfortable too, then it will all work smoothly.
Each person loses their virginity at different ages so just go with YOUR flow.
Good Luck.
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You're going to get mixed responses here..
So this is all my personal opinion.
Firstly, I don't believe there's a set time.
I feel you should have sex after you are of legal age, when you 100% trust the person you are with, when you know everything there is to know about pregnancy/sti's/std's/emotional factors etc of sex and when you know it's not going to be a waste.
Example of when not to have sex: You've been with your boyfriend a few months and want to spice things up a little so he doesn't get bored of you vice versa and just to get your virginity out of the way.
Example of when to have sex:
You feel STRONGLY/LOVE the person you're doing it with and not just lusting after them. You're in a stable relationship and know nothing will change after doing the deed. You are 100% ready and have no doubts.
You'll always remember your first time (unless you're stupid and intoxicated), so make it worth it. Don't just do it for the sake of doing it.
and even when you do lose your virginity, don't treat sex as just fun and games afterwards.
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as the others have said below me its not about age, it about how you feel about the other individual you are going to have intercourse with and if you think your ready, also you have to take into account the responsibility of the outcome after sex. so i suggest your first time having sex make sure it is someone who you are in love with and care about madly. there are a lot of emotions tied in your first time having sex especially when you dont know what to expect, it's a beautiful thing really because you grow even closer to the person that you gave yourself too, its something that you cant even put into words if it is with someone you truly have strong feelings for.
just take those thoughts into account
Brittni
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ummmmmm its not about age
you cant plan taht stuff out and if you think its about age then obvouisly your not ready
you will know when you are you will feel secure and loved and ready you will know how to stay safe.
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It is whatever your take is on it. If you go by the bible, then it's in your 20-30's when you get married. But if not, most people do it in college. Anddd I don't think there is ever a time to be too old to have sex unless you have terrible arthiritis and can't move because your really old :P. Hope I helped
--Jenna
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It's not about age.
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