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whats wrong with me??
ok so everytime a perfectly legitimate guy likes me and i think normally i would probably like him to, after we start talking a lot and he opens up and starts saying we should go out and how much he likes me i start feeling so uncomfortable about him to the point where i dont even want to talk to him anymore cause i feel so uncomfortable... am i too picky?? why do i keep feeling like this everytime im about to go out with a guy i should like?? im 16 btw
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You just arn't ready for a relationship and that's ok.
Just wait awhile.
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Ok. I had a friend who was exactly the same! The thing is one night she meet this guy who she really liked and really clicked with and she ended up going out with this guy for awhile! I'm bringing this up, because in your question you say, "I would probably like" and "I should like" you need to like the guy, not probably like, not maybe, you should like the guy. (My friend she used to pull away from the guys who she thought she should have something with but the guy she wanted to have something with she didn't pull away.)
Once you like him and once you want to go out with him, it becomes easier to actually date. And not pull back like you seem to do. The thing is, is here the guy wants to go out with you and thats great but you don't seem to want to go out with him- I say that because you say the whole "probably like and should like" maybe you are just more comfortable with being friends with the guy.
It may just not be the right guy for you. So that's why you pull away.
Alternatively, maybe its just the wrong time. Maybe you just aren't ready to date right now and that's why you pull away. There is nothing wrong with that!
I think you may want to consider telling the guy you just want to be friends with him for now. I think that when you meet a guy that you really like and that you really want to date, you won't pull away, you'll probably be nervous but if its a guy you really like you will go for it! Nerves and all! Just take some time to think about it.
Don't stress! When you are ready you'll be ready! When you like the guy you'll go for it you may need a push but you'll go for it!
I hope this helps! Sorry it was so long!
Good luck!
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