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does she like me?
My name is Josh, I'm 21, and i need some advice.
I've been crushing on this girl at work for a while now, and recently we've been hanging outside of work a little. this past weekend she was saposed to come see my band play at a party but she never showed up, the next morning she came in with gatorade donuts and asprin for me and appoligized for missing the show. i dont know if she was trying to make up for missing the show or didn't want me to be mad at her or what. everyone at work thinks she likes me even our boss said "I've been watching her flirt with you for months now". i guess i just want to make sure before i make a move.
thanks
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The best thing to do is ask her to chill. Not necessarily invite her to dinner formally, but just to chill and see where it takes you. That way you get to spend time with her and if she likes you something is boung to happen.
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she probably felt bad about missing the show...but you shouldn't date her because if something happens than it would create a stressful and awkward work environment
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She was probably trying to be nice and wanted to make up for not showing up to the party, or she maybe didn't want for you to be disappointed (or both). Whatever her reasons, it was nice of her to show up the next morning with those things. Of course I don't know what's going on in her mind, but usually if someone goes out of their way like that, it's a sign they like you. She could just be really nice though. But from what it seems, she probably does like you.
All your coworkers and your boss have no stake in what happens, so they pretty much see what they see. I would trust their judgment and give it a go. You could ask if maybe she'd like to go out somewhere after work or during the weekend, or if there's another party or venue your band will be playing at, you could invite her again. See what happens.
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Well first of when she brought you gatorade, asprin, and donuts for you she is caring. so she cares about you after the party night, she tending towards you and you should definitly tell her that it was a very nice thing she did and you appreciated it. her doing that was techinically a apology bc you dont know why she didnt show up. or for you wont bemad at her gift.
if other co-workers or even your boss sees the flirting then go for it make a move but not a drastic one something suttle. you have to learn how to walk before you can run.
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Well it sounds to me like she likes you too, but the only way to know for sure is to ask. If you are too shy to talk to her I would say maybe hint at her that you like her. And honestly from a girl's perspective, I hate it when guys just assume that I already know they like me. I am one of those oblivious people, and if I were you, just go up and be straightfoward about everything.
I say go for it, you have a very good chance. I have total faith in you! :)
Good luck, and be confident, you got this!!
<3 Jeannie
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