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selfish? wat to do help in a hurry!!!
my boyfriend of seven months today has been hanging with this guy that so happends makes me want to barf i hate him last year he played me like a real player and did to all my friends. i hateee himm not to mention hes a bad kid drugs im guessing and GIRLS. so my boyfriend is hanging with him and already i notice a difference from him and i get mad everyday and the trust thing is weakeining and it kills me i want to tell him to stop hanging out with him and my friends said they understand my delmea but when i ask him why was here there at that time he wont tell me he goes cuz or something that makes me want to fucking punch him so im going to tell him how i feel about it and that if hes going to make me feel this way everytime then well im gone sorry i dont know if im sounding selfish or what i just dont know what to do and I REFUSE to cry over it im holding back as tight as i can but you know what there will be a time where i cant take it. someone help me and quick its like 4 now and hell be at my house so i can talk to him in a couple of hours if not then well know why he didnt come over *the kid i hate****
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You might have a good reason not to like this guy, but your boyfriend might have good reasons to like him. Your reasons don't get to be automatically more important then his.
So go ahead and tell your boyfriend how you feel, but after you do you need to listen to how HE feels, even if you don't like it.
It's on you to decide if this is worth being miserable and dumping him over, or if it's something you can let go with your boyfriends reasurence. It's not selfish to feel something, but it is selfish to accuss his or demand he feel the exact same way you do about this guy. His feelings are just as valid as yours and he is allowed to disagree with you.
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you arent being selfish... There is a good reason that you don't like him and you just need to explain it to your boyfriend and pretty much tell him what you said on here but more detailed he should understand and hear you out on it. Good luck (:
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k well you need to ask your bf what means more to him you or that guy because what he chooses will make your decision if he says you then you need to tell him that he cant hang out with the guy if he chooses a guy then you leave him and say fine watever i dont care and you move on its the only way to decide what needs to be done. good luck :)
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