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creepy stalker guy


Question Posted Monday November 10 2008, 8:29 pm

okay, so there's this guy at my school, and I guess he's got this crush on me or whatever. sure, no big deal right, that's cool--NO.
he's kind of a creeper person, which wouldn't be so bad....except that he had to ask his friend to ask my friend to ask me what I thought of him. and my friend gave him my cell phone number [oops!, yeah right...] and he's called me three times since thursday, but I don't know what to say to him....so I don't know what to do. I don't really like him like that...at all...and now he's kinda freaking me out. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THIS!!! SOMEONE HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!


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loverlyxxx answered Wednesday November 12 2008, 7:47 pm:
Just flat out tell him " I dont like you like that, i'd also like it if you stopped calling me, your kinda freaking me out." If he keeps calling tell your parents or the school consiller. i know it seems rudley blunt but it WILL work.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday November 12 2008, 4:00 pm:
Tell him you don't like him in that kind of way. Ask him if the two of you can be friends. You can never have enough friends. You should find it stalkerish as long as he isn't trying to harm you. It sounds kind of cute. good luck.

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karenR answered Wednesday November 12 2008, 3:47 pm:
A stalker is a person who sneaks around
following you home. It is a crime.

This guy simply likes you. He probably
has no idea you think hes creepy! So, if
you want him to stop calling simply answer
the phone and tell him you don't like him
and for him to stop calling you.

If he continues after that, which I doubt he
will, get your parents involved because he
is harassing you.

My guess is he will slither off in
embarrassment with hurt feelings.

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triquetra answered Wednesday November 12 2008, 1:55 pm:
I've got five words for you: tell him you're not interested. You don't like him so you shouldn't let him get to you like this.

The more time passes, the more irritating this guy is going to get. And I think you need to speak to your friend about whom she gives your number to.

And I wouldn't call it stalking. My definition of 'stalking' is when somebody SECRETLY likes or wants to be a certain person and takes pictures of them in secret and tries to copy them etc. This guy clearly just likes you and wants to know whether you like him. Don't let him continue on thinking that you may like him because the longer time goes on, the more hopeful he will get.

I hope this helped,
triquetra

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