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Question Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 6:01 pm

okay october 31 was my friend's birthday, and i told her im gonna send a myspace comment saying happy birthday so i did and it was long message and a birthday funny picture and i send it at 12AM sharp but the thing is she didnt even apporve my comment and didnt even say thank you until now yet she approved her other friends birthday wishes and said thank you to them is this messed up or what?


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Alilash answered Thursday November 6 2008, 6:44 pm:
Myspace can sometimes be messed up. Yeah it can hurt that you took your time to send your friend a cute happy birthday thing and she didn't reply. Ask her about it. It can hurt to do something special and not get anything in return. You don't know exactly what shes thinking right now. Just ask, it can't hurt(:

Maybe shes thinking about something else right now.

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volunteergirl answered Tuesday November 4 2008, 3:15 pm:
hi, um i also have a myspace and sometimes their are delays and you don't see the comment the first time but if you log back in later then it will appear. So honestly i don't think it's a big deal and if i'm wrong and she did it on purpose than just wait a couple of days and see if she is mad at you. I just don't think you should blow this out of proportion, it's not worth losing a friendship.




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Hitoast answered Monday November 3 2008, 6:15 pm:
Well, you said it was really long message so maybe she just didn't want it taking up space on her profile? Or, maybe she didn't get it? Myspace screws up all the time, it could very well have been a technical problem :D Other than that, maybe you should just ask her. Just say "hey, I sent you a comment on myspace about your birthday. Didn't you see it?" Or something of the like :) Hope I helped!

-Jessica f/14

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josephballard10 answered Monday November 3 2008, 1:19 am:
The question shouldn't be , "Is this messed up?" but more of "Why didn't she approve my comment?" And that's all I can give you advice on right now. I believe that your friend maybe didn't recieve your comment, and if she did she probably read it and ignored it most likely for a reason that I do not know. But, the first priority would be for you not to get worked up over anything so silly as a Myspace comment. You should confront your friend via e-mail, phone, text, or face to face. Whichever works best for you (I would go with face to face) and discuss why she didn't approve your comment. And she should give you a pretty reasonable explanation unless she's like mad at you or something. Simply go to her in school or at her house and see what's up.

Please leave me feedback on my answer ThankYou :)

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