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My friend and i are on and off with this guy...
My name is Rayelle I'm 13 and in the 8th grade. This is my story. My best friend has gone out with this guy, Dylan, about 10 times and it only lasts about a week or two, but this time she was going out with him and she started to like this other guy Jon and told Jon that she would go out with him, so basically she cheated on Dylan 4 about 3 days and then dumped Dylan. I was going out with Cody at the time, and the next day there was a football game at the HS and I met up with Cody, and Mak (my other friend). Dylan was there and Tucker too. At the game I hung out with Dylan. We talked and stuff about Alivia and everything that happened. After the game was over I walked with Tucker and Dylan to Dylan's house. When we got there we hung outside for a while then Tucker left and Dylan and me just sat and talked and really made a connection and stuff. When I had to go home Dylan walked me to main street and then said "we should go out, because im really lonely." I was almost in shock. I said "ok, I was going to dump Cody anyway, he's a perv." and I gave him a hug and kiss on the cheek and walked home to dump Cody. When I got home Alivia called me and I ended up telling her that I was going out with Dylan. She was pissed! "But you dumped him", I said. She’s like "But I talked to Dylan and stuff and I really like him still." All I was thinking at the time was, OMG! Shut up! Get over it, it’s your fault you dumped him. Dylan and I only went out for 2 weeks and then he dumped me and I asked him why he did and he said he didn’t know (LIE!). The same night he asked out Alivia again and of course she said yes to get back at me. They have been going out for a week now, but Dylan has told 3 ppl that he doesn't like Alivia really anymore and I think he likes me! And I really really like Dylan still and want him back. What do I do? What do I say?
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i think you can just wait and see what happens with this dylan guy and your friend, Alivia.
Maybe you can move on and maybe your friend will too. You can also try hooking your friend up..
BTW: Do you happen to attend CPJH?
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To start off, this guy (Dylan) seems to not know what he wants.
You should definitely be better than that. Like, don't go out with someone who obviously can't make up his mind.
And if Aliva was a really good friend:
1.) you wouldn't go out with her ex, because that in itself isn't exactly right.
2.) she'd be supportive of your relationships whether or not it's with her ex or not.
I really don't think you should go out with Dylan (again), as much as you may like him, because he really doesn't know what he wants. And the fact that he said he wanted to go out with you because HE was lonely, is wrong. He should go out with you because he really likes you, wants to be with you and try things with you for months to come.
And especially if went out with your friend, Alivia, about 10 times should really ring a bell that he doesn't want to be with her, and that he broke up with you to go out with her, yet again.
If you want to save yourself of some drama and controversy, do NOT go out with him if he should ask you out again.
I hope this helps
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Apparently he's really co-dependant. I've delt with almost the same kind of guy. All I can say is, move on from him, because he just wants someone, not you in particular. And since him and your friend can't last very long, it shows that he doesn't want to be with the same person very long. And this also goes with the, you want what you can't have. Him seeing you as unavailable got him interested, and also because he was single, and needed someone to cling to. So, moving on and finding someone else would probably make him interested again. But, you don't need him to make you happy. :] You seem like a smart girl who can go without someone like him. ;D
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