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My kind of friend? what?


Question Posted Monday October 6 2008, 4:20 pm

This is done by texting. My friend and I, but hes also a guy that I like. I did call him last night, but he didn't get my phone call cause he was on the comp.(we are both seniors in H.S.)
This is from today..after school.

me: are you busy tonite?

him: no

me: then I will call you tonite and hopefully I wont get your voicemail.

him: kk..why?

Me: fine...then I don't want to call you

him: no....are you going to tell me something important?

me: no..I just want to talk to u...friends call each other and stuff, but you never text me first..only once T.T

him: I do that to all my friends

me: ok well i'll take that..I just wish more ppl were like me in a friendship..kinda..a little bit

him: call me...tonite

me: why?

him: u said you want that kind of friend

Am i suppose to be okay with this?...I'm just lost because i am very insecure and i tend to over analyze everything...please tell me what this means.


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Additional info, added Monday October 6 2008, 4:21 pm:
does he even want to be my friend?...ugh...i go through this feeling all the time..I even went through this feeling with my best friend years ago..and i got over it..ugh...

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bridge12307 answered Tuesday October 7 2008, 11:38 am:
well if he wants to talk.then talk to him girll[[:
dont be insecure please!guys really dont like thatbut maybe you guys can start talking everynight..and hell get use to it.idk..but it seems like he wants to talk to you.but yall are both kinda playing hard to get.dont do that,lol..i mean dont give in and throw your self all over him.but just let him know you like him.and see what happens!you never know..he may be feeling the same way about you.

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triquetra answered Tuesday October 7 2008, 5:43 am:
It means that he wants to be your friend. When he asked, I think he just generally wanted to know as to what you wanted to talk to him about, it would be either:
a) something ver important (like going out with him for example)
b) something everyday.

Don't ask me why, but it always seems to happen with guys, even eith me!!!

So trust me, everything is fine, there is nothing to worry about.

And also, you kinda did the same thing when he asked you to call him: your responded in the same sort of way and I'm willing to go as a far as saying that you were wondering whether he'd something to tell you as well or whether he just wanted to talk to you.

I hope this helped,
triquetra

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ohitscassidy answered Monday October 6 2008, 9:38 pm:
alright, you should calm down i don't even see where the problem is.. he didn't say anything that could lead to him not wanting to be your friend..

the guy was simply asking why you were calling, he thought you had something important to say, but when you said no i wont call... that problem confused him like me because if you want to be friends with him why would you say i won't call out of know where?
anyways he said for YOU to call him, and just talk.. like you wanted haha relax im sure he still wants to be your friend nothing happened that you said, would make him change his mind

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