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To talk to this girl at the library, or not/ask her out
Well i will start off by saying i am never this shy around girls, but I have a huge crush on this girl at my campus library, she is always there studying. (very cute) I met her last year while studying for finals. I will start from the beginning real quick. she knows i think she is cute because my friend went up to her and told her. A couple of days later we talked for about 1/2 hour after she called me over in the library. Well she told me to facebook her and i did, along with my 2 friends that secretly did it as well, and she deleted us all when she found out. I see her around now, and we have made eye contact several times, at the same time her friends look at me and smile as i walk pass. I dont know if i should say something or i should just let it go. Because after all they could be laughing at me, thinking i was a creeper or something. what do you all think i should do. i am open to anything. Also ways to start the convo would be great too... thanks a lot
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sounds like she's interested but it's very possibly because she thinks you're interested. from my perspective, i like the other person (you) to start the convo, so she may be questioning if she should make some contact as much as you are. however, if she thinks your being pushy (which could be indicated by her deleting you) don't ask her out right away. try to be friends with her. she goes to your school, ask her what teachers she has...you probably have things in common. once you've talked to her for a while, then ask her to do something...i still wouldn't be so all-out date-like, i'd say ask her to a movie or football game. but if you move slow, your more likely to be friends and talk to her more, and more likely to get her to see the real you (and not just your friends) and genuinely like you back. my advice. hope that helps.
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I would confront her about it. Personally to me it's better to know the truth then to wait for something to happen.
Hm. Since she likes to study and that type of stuff why not as her what she likes to read or something.
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