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love... triangle?
okay, this guy x and my friend y have got off a few times, but shes been with other people in between, but he's not cause he quite likes her but she just uses him because he's there. and i've liked x for quite a while, but i have no chance with y(i've known him all my life and we're quite close) but i hate when i see them together or people are talking about them. and i've been really bitchie to her recently because of it; i don't mean to be but i can't help it. what should i do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
either you should tell the person you like them and take it from there or you should let it go and move on
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Okay, so I'm thinking that x is the guy you like and y is one of your friends who x is obsessed with but she just uses him. I say you tell y that you like x a lot and what to know her reaction to it if you told him about it. Then if your friend is okay with it...tell x how you feel. I hate to burst your bubble but chances are he will tell you that he really likes y a lot and wants to see where it goes. You will just have to accept this and see where it goes, eventually x will find out that y uses him and will be crushed and you can be there to help him through it and eventually you two will become closer. Then hopefully, you'll be able to be with x...if you still feel the same way about him, and your friend y will be okay with it because she already said she didn't care. Now if y says that she cares...you better just stay away from x because a guy is not worth ruining your friendship over...no matter how much you think you like a guy.
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