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okay soooooo, i dated this guy for about 2 years. i was in lovee with him. for about the last 3 months of our relationship he broke up with me like 3 times! but he would always come back to me within a week or what not. the last time he broke up with me he didnt come back.. i tried really hard to make it work and be with him but he said it wasnt like that anymore. so for about a month we still talked and i told him i still loved him and i always would, but then i realized that he really only thought of me as a friend and that only being friends with him would be too hard for me.
so i stopped contact with him and for the next month we didnt talk at all! i ended up seeing him at this get together and i didnt speak to him at all. the next day he ended up texting me? and was like ohh thanks for saying hi to me at the party! i was just like haha ok. and then he was like haha! and i didnt text him back. a week later he texted me telling me he was going off to college. i dont know why he was telling me this considering we didnt talk and he even removed me from his myspace friends list? anyways i just responded like ya thats cool.
about 3 days later he called me and we actually talked for about an hour, he told me that he wanted me to visit him and i just told him that it wouldnt be a good idea.
the next day he called me again saying i should really come up that weekend and i just said idk. and he was like i miss you, i think i really do love you and all this stuff, and it made me of course miss him again.. so that weekend i went up to see him and it was really good! he kept holding me and kissing me and calling me babe and stuff but when i left he told me "you know we're not dating tho okay?" like why the heck would he even say that? i know we're not dating..? and i didnt even say anything about us dating? it just kind of confused me like idk.
and then after i left he didnt text / call me or anything. so the next night i texted him and he didnt text me back. so i texted him later and said "thanks for texting me back!" and he texted me and said "you'reee annoying" like wtf? so i called him and i was like "whats your problem?" and hes like "nothing you keep texting mee and im busy. your crazy" like what the hell is his problem? and i was like "why are you acting so weird all of a sudden just yesterday you were telling me how much you loved me, now im annoying?" and hes like "i gotta go i have to write a paper ill call you later" and i was like ok.. and we hung up. he didnt call me that night or the next day. im soo confused like whys he being like this? we dated for 2 years, he put me threw so much pain of breaking up with me and coming back to me, all i wanted was to be with him, and i finally started to get over him and now hes coming back to me, is he breaking it off again or is he just having a bad time, what do you think. i really love him again, and i want to make it work again, but i cant if i dont know how he feels. but i dont want to straight out say "how do you feel tell me how you feel, what do you think about me" cause that sounds weird. but what do you think? does he still have love me? or whatts going on with him and what should i do
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Your ex is being an inconsiderate bastard. Pardon me for saying that.
There could be a few reasons why he's picking you up and then dropping you off again. (1) He still likes you, but feels that it is difficult to continue a relationship with you maybe because he feels you two aren't compatible in ways that I don't know what it is.
(2) He does not have those feelings you have for him, and he texts you when he feels the need for companionship, since he knows that you still like him and you'll respond to his needs.
In both cases, it'll hurt you if you continue talking to him. I understand that you still like him, but sometimes, we have to move on when the other party does not have mutual feelings towards you. There is nothing wrong with moving on. If you were to think carefully, will you be happy if you carry on talking to him?
I hope you'll realise what is the right thing to do.
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Okay, forget about this guy. I KNOW it hurts and I KNOW you have a lot of history and I KNOW you want to make it work...believe me I KNOW. He is not worth your time...he obviously only wants you around when it is convenient for him and he misses the idea of a girlfriend...he doesn't actually miss you.
Don't text him, don't contact him, and for heaven's sake do not go visit him again. He is a loser and not worth your time.
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