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friends having sex
i'm sixteen years old and i just found out that one of my best friends had sex. we are really close and i was surprised to hear it, especially because i thought she would tell me something like that. i don't know if i should bring it up to her because i don't want her to get angry that i found out or be embarrassed or anything. should i say anything about it or forget it?
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The same thing happened with me, except my friend told me. She knew I would flip out about it, and although I did, I tried to understand where she was coming from.
Like it's been said, it's her business, and like with my friend, I don't bring it up. I let her bring it up, though we haven't talked about it lately.
If she feels comfortable telling you, she will. Just give her time.
--Jack
(16/m)
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She might not have told you because she thought you would disaprove or be angry at her. I think you should just wait to see if she tells you, she probably would get embarrassed if she found out other people knew about it.
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Sex is a very personal issue that not all people are comfortable talking about. If she wants to talk to you about it, she will. Until then, I wouldn't bring it up.
-Laura. (16-f)
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As people get older they tend to keep
some things just between themselves and
their boyfriend. You're getting to the
age where some things are private.
It doesn't mean she doesn't trust you
and she still likes you and is your friend.
Shes just becoming an adult. You can tell
her you heard about it, just don't be hurt
she didn't tell you. Her boyfriend may have
said something to a friend (some of them
mature later than girls!)who told thier
girlfriend etc.
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maybe she's waiting for the right time to tell you? mention what you heard, and ask why wouldn't she tell you.
then have sex with her. jk jk!! :D
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If she wanted you to know she would have told you.
Some people don't like talking about their relationships, even to best friends.
It's also possible that she regrets it, and would rather forget than tell you all the details.
-LM
[16/f]
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