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losing a friend .


Question Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 12:07 am

have you ever lost a friend? What did you feel like? Do you still miss him or her? I think I'm on the verge of losing my friend, and i just wanted to know what you have gone thru. Thanks.

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karaa answered Thursday July 24 2008, 2:00 am:
wow i didnt just lose a friend. I lost my bestfriend about 2 months ago. I went from being with him everyday, talking to him every night on the phone till 12:30, and just wrestling around, having fun. to not talking to him, didnt see him. nothing. I couldn't help but cry it was the worst feeling. I at that time had 2 bestfriends and my other bestfriend hated it. He tried to keep my mind off of it, but the harder he tried the worse it got. When i didnt talk to the friend i lost, i felt worthless. I didn't feel like i belonged here & i thought of running away. && yeahhh me and him are talking again because i broke down one day, got drunk, texted him and that started our friendship again. It's kind of crazy but he was scared for me when i was drunk. But we are getting closer again & to be quite honest, although we are talking. i still miss him more than anything.

If you don't want to loose this sit them down and talk to them. Loosing a friend isnt fun, it's probably one of the worse things i've been through. So talk to them about it & be honest. I wasnt completely honest which is why i kind of lost my bestfriend. So just 100% honest, no matter what.

Hope i helped.
if you need anything else,
dont be shy :)

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lifescomplicated answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 7:07 am:
Yes I lost a friend and it was horrible. It made me feel like rying which I did. I lost memories with that person and lost what we both had gone through. It was something horrible that happened to me. If you don't want to go through this sit down with your friend and talk everything over. I didn't get the chance but you can.

Lifescomlicated

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Psycotheis answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 3:29 am:
Its not a fun feeling, of course. You feel like a part of you was just ripped apart from you if they were a really good friend. After awhile, you might forget about them for some time, but when you get nostalgic, it hurts to know you lost a good friend. If you are on the verge of losing a friend, you should stop try to stop it. Losing a good friend can hurt worse than breaking up with a significant other. Though you might not think it like that, it will feel that way after awhile.

I've lost too many. Simply because I move around too much. Heck, my fam isn't even a part of the army. So I've never had any childhood friends, or best friends I've known for years on end. I've never had that in a long shot.

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