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WAS HE TRYING TO LIE TO ME?????!!!!


Question Posted Thursday July 17 2008, 11:15 am

so there is this guy, and i told him how i felt about him even though he had a girlfriend and he said i wanna tell you how i feel about you and he did he said he wished we could have gotten to know each other more...
well we would just talk on emails over myspace and thats it until just recently two days ago from today he asked do you wanna hang out with me.....well we never did cuz of the timeing bbut the next day we talked more, ust over emails and he told me that him and his girlfriend just broke up!!!!! but the thing is we never talk about him and her and whats more he told i didnt even bring her up!!!!!
well anyways i asked why they broke up and he said it was because
.....she thought he was cheating on her with ....ME!!!!!!!!
and thats not true!!!!! so i wrote back saying im sorry i should have just left you alone i feel really bad now.....heres the part youve been waiting for......his girlfriend requests me as a friend on myspace and she says.........listen yurr not the reason we broke up things were just going down hill for us so its not yurr fault!!!!!
WTF!!!!!!!!!!! why in the world would he tell me that i was the reason!!!!!!???????
does anyone know why!!!
cuz im pretty sure he likes me or at least has feelings for me so why would he tell me they broke up cause of me??????

help me please!!


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AskKay23 answered Thursday July 17 2008, 2:48 pm:
When two people coming out of a relationship have mixed feelings-- different sides of the story and reasons why the end has to come, are always going to be two-sided. Chances are, you're never going to get the truth out of this situation. You may never know whether or not he told you the truth.

You know that you did nothing wrong but simply respond to emails. There was no cheating-- and if she really thought he was cheating on her with you, then why would she be so nice as to tell you that it wasn't your fault at all?

Be rational.. because teenage boys do whatever they can to trigger a girl's confusion.

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Melody answered Thursday July 17 2008, 2:17 pm:
Maybe he likes you, and didn't know how to tell you. He could have thought that telling you that his girlfriend and him broke up over you would make you like him and want to maybe try dating.

I don't know though, you'll have to ask him yourself.

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mikesadvice answered Thursday July 17 2008, 1:55 pm:
Players like to play on others feelings. If he can make you feel sorry for him he may be able to get you to do what he couldn't get his other girlfriend to do. Steer clear of this guy. If he would lie about something silly like this just consider what else he will lie about.

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PinkVsBlue answered Thursday July 17 2008, 1:43 pm:
Maybe you should ask him. I have a feeling he did it to maybe put the idea of you and him together. But that would be really silly of him.

Just ask him. Casually just bring up. Thats really the only way you are going to find out.

:)

Goodluck!

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