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i m a 18year old girl.i m in a relationship for past 8 mnths.my boyfriend has confessed tht he had oral sex with a 3 girls before me...but knw he loves me ..i believe him tht he is compleletly changed. but still their is dilama in my mind about what i dnt knw..i want tht he shud regret over it like anything... wht shuld i do.. help mee
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If you are uncomfortable with this, you need to talk to him about it. Let him know of your concerns, feelings, etc. with regard to the issue.
It's good that he is telling you the truth. Now you should definitely express your feelings about this, especially if it makes you feel a bit uneasy.
Good luck =)
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ok, so he told you that he's had oral three times before, but that he's completely changed.
sorry hun, but he sounds like he HASN'T changed.
honestly, you need to talk to him about it. i'm not sure what you want us to help you with, but if you think that he's hiding something from you, you need to talk to him about it and figure out what's going on.
-collin
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Ok, so this happened before you came along. It is in the past, therefore, it has nothing to do with you.
Why let it affect you?
Say, 10 years from now you meet a 28 year old guy you eventually want to marry. (I'm just saying as an example, by the way.) Would you expect this guy to have no kind of past with women? Because chances are, a 28 year old man has.
Don't let things affect you that have no bearing on you or your relationship.
Realize that his confession is a GOOD thing. He is comfortable enough with your relationship to trust you with such intimate details about his life.
ygs-30/f
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