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people i'm scared of


Question Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 12:25 am

16/f.
im scared of people like in gangs in stuff or people who could beat me up. but i don't get any dignanty if i let them walk all over me and im tired of taking their crap. i want to be able to do or say anything i want[nothing stupid of course]. and i am going to do that, but do you think those people will beat me up or shoot me?


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SweetGuyBrokenHeart answered Saturday July 5 2008, 1:09 pm:
You cant be afraid of these people all your life, I have been doing mixed martal arts for a year and a half and it adds a new balance to your life. When you look at people with confidence and skill the equation is totally different. I know two ways to break a mans arm or snap his neck if he goes to grab me. Learning these simple moves and just lifting some weights once in a while gives you so much. Plus, I enjoy mixed martial arts so much that im entering in tournaments.
Im not telling you to go look for trouble, but if it comes your way you will know what to do.
I hope i helped, and if you need any information just IM me at xxtryinhardxx or email me at bearpierro@yahoo.com.

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thelaura answered Saturday July 5 2008, 3:32 am:
No matter where you are, there's always going to be assholes in gangs who think they're more superior than anyone and feel it's okay to say and do whatever the hell they want. Well they're absolute idiots and aren't going to get any where in life.. but unfortunately, due to their idiocy, they can go out of their way to piss you off, maybe even try to harm you, who knows.
What I'm trying to say is, why do you feel the need to stand up to these people? SO many times, I've heard of innocent people who try and stand up to gangs, but end up being murdered/beaten up - and it's just not worth it.
It's impossible to say what they will do to you - we don't know them and definitely don't know what they're capable of.
Don't get involved with them and just get on with your life.

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TheFool answered Saturday July 5 2008, 2:14 am:
Do gangs in your neighborhood regularly kill people? If you live somewhere like Compton CA or LA then you have reason to be worried, and I would say what is more important, your dignity or your life? If they don't respect you, just ignore them. Be above them, don't stoop to their level. No one can say whatever they want and do whatever they want. Life doesn't work that way. Don't get people mad at you with your opinions. If what you have to say will get them angry, just don't say it to them. You don't have to prove anything to them. You know who you are.

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