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Backstabbing.
Well, I was always the girl who loved school. I had a lot of friends and always had something to do. I had this best friend and me and her was with eachother 24/7. She was like my sister. Well things happened and we kind of drifted apart. She started talking mad crap about me, and made the entire school hate me & want to fight me. I didn't do anything wrong to her. She just got a little jealous when I started dating my boyfriend. Now she keeps sending me threatening e-mails and I don't know what to do about this. I've ignored her, and tried to forget about it but she just won't let it go. It's getting ridiculous. Please any advice besides telling someone or turning her in.
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Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!
I think the way she is acting is quiet ridiculous to, BUT I'am sorry to say this but I think it's
getting to serious threatning emails, and people
wanting to fight you! I really think you should
tell a parent , or tell the school counselor because things like this might get worse than it
is. You don't want that.If, your worried that it will make things worse, it won't it will make things
better, if you don't want to tell the school counselor , just tell your parents they love you
and they care about your feelings, and your life
at home,and at school. They don't criticize how
you feel , or what happened . Your parents had to deal with mean people too.
I really think you should talk to your your old
friend , ask what you did , and ask if you can
work things out. I really think she had a crush
on your boyfriend, that why I think she bashed
you at your school.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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it sounds like she is completely jelous of you, and thats the reason why she did what she did, the best bet is to tell somemone, like an adult. or ignore her like you've been doing.. and if she puts her hands on you ..fight her like your fighting for life...
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I'm guessing you're in middle or high school.
You should find a time where she is alone and not with any of her friends. It will be hard, but you need to talk to her where she is not trying to look cool in front of her friends bye picking on the weak. She won't try to be how she normally is. Ask her if she can think about what she's doing. She'll see the friend she had before. Mabye she will frealize that emailing with her frinds threatening emails wasn't exactly soo much fun. I hope you realize she was obviously bored and wanted to have some 'fun'! If this does not work, print out the emails and talk to a guidence counsler, but as a last resort. Try to get some good friends behind your back. Every single person in the school can not hate you. That is not physically possible. Good luck!
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You said you didn't want to tell someone about this, well I think there's something wrong with that since posting this question on this site is kinda like telling someone about it, right?
Well if what you mean to say is not to tell anyone close to you then there's nothing really wrong with that. You just have to consider the fact that the people closest to you sometimes gives the best advice that you can ever find.
Now about your friend, you said that you tried to ignore her and just let everything blow over, i think this is a mistake. You should have tried communicating with her. Ask her what happened. Why she got mad and why she's doing the stuff she's doing to you now. Communication is the best key in resolving fights.
Now how are you going to do this you ask?
Well, I can tell you a few things that you can do but I guess the best thing to do right now is to talk to your friend personally, with just the two of you, preferably in a place where you used to go to a lot together. This way the two of you will be much more comfortable talking to each other.
If you're not comfortable in doing this sort of thing then here's another advice that I can give you. You said that she was sending you threatening e-mails, is she still doing this?
If so then try replying to that e-mail by saying that you want to why she's doing this. This way you can avoid a physical confrontation (if you're afraid of one) and still find out what happened wrong and reconcile your differences.
I hope this helps you in your problem.
Good luck!!!
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