Member Since: June 30, 2008
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Right, so..
I have a friend, lets call her... Sam.
She was inviting people to go and stay at a theme park for a few days. She invited nearly all of her friends, but left me out. I can't just ask if I can go, because I dont want to sound cheeky. But, I don't mean this to sound selfish. If I had gone to a theme park or somewhere to stay, I would've took her. Actually, I have took her to a awards show once.
I feel really sad.
What should I do/say?
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I am really sorry. But this "friend" is not doing her job, which is being a friend. A friends job is to hang out with and give a shoulder to lean on. She is doing the opposite, which is getting away. It has happened to me, but in a more extreme way, my problem was she was my best friend since I was 6 months old. Our mothers, acted like we were simonize twins, she moved a couple miles, I called her and she spoke less and less, no birthday party invites, nothing, i was out of her league. What i did is stopped being her friend. i wouldn't invite her to anything. Don't ignore her because thats just plain out immature, but don't invite her to parties, or gathering with other friends. when school stasrts u'll see her and, let me tell u she will notice that you haven't incited her. But before you do all this ask her this " If we are friends how come you did not invite me to your theme park thingy" If she says oh i forgot, do what i said, if she is like bitch please , like i would invite u, do what i said, if she gives the old, my mom doesn't like you excuse, do what i said, but if she is realy sincere and says like she means it a really convincing story, them wait til you hear of the next event, if your invited, she was true, if your not,DO WHAT i SAID!!!]
keep me posted ;)
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Im fifteen, female, sophomore this fall.
This boy is moving in less than a month and we've only just expressed our feelings for one another. There's an extremely long story from long ago that's not worth writing, but I still don't think he was really that sincere.
I haven't talked to him in weeks and seen him in months. I may be going through withdrawl or maybe I'm just in denial. Buut, I've convinced myself that I don't like him. I'm only jealous of his confidence, mad arteestic skills, style, and oh that HAIR!
I know it's only summer and there are other guys, but none like him. This one's special [:
So. Whaddya think? I think that if he likes me so much, he should call me for once. Just answering his phone would be nice. If that makes him sound jerkish, he probably is. But that makes me sound shallow and that's really bad. Ahh, I don't wanna be shallow! HELP (link)
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If this 'jerk' isn't calling, or emailing, or texting, or communicsting, then yes he is a big fat jerk. I know you have feelings for him and blah, blah, blah. This will be hard but try to think of it as a nice break up. Get refreshed. Go out with your friends at the mall, and look nice. Flirt ALOT!!! There are plenty fishy in the sea. Just don't expect them to come and take a bight. But be careful with the mall thingy, some fishy's bight way to hard.
GOOD LUCK. keepme posted
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Well, I was always the girl who loved school. I had a lot of friends and always had something to do. I had this best friend and me and her was with eachother 24/7. She was like my sister. Well things happened and we kind of drifted apart. She started talking mad crap about me, and made the entire school hate me & want to fight me. I didn't do anything wrong to her. She just got a little jealous when I started dating my boyfriend. Now she keeps sending me threatening e-mails and I don't know what to do about this. I've ignored her, and tried to forget about it but she just won't let it go. It's getting ridiculous. Please any advice besides telling someone or turning her in. (link)
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I'm guessing you're in middle or high school.
You should find a time where she is alone and not with any of her friends. It will be hard, but you need to talk to her where she is not trying to look cool in front of her friends bye picking on the weak. She won't try to be how she normally is. Ask her if she can think about what she's doing. She'll see the friend she had before. Mabye she will frealize that emailing with her frinds threatening emails wasn't exactly soo much fun. I hope you realize she was obviously bored and wanted to have some 'fun'! If this does not work, print out the emails and talk to a guidence counsler, but as a last resort. Try to get some good friends behind your back. Every single person in the school can not hate you. That is not physically possible. Good luck!
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