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Yes. There is a boy.
Im fifteen, female, sophomore this fall.
This boy is moving in less than a month and we've only just expressed our feelings for one another. There's an extremely long story from long ago that's not worth writing, but I still don't think he was really that sincere.
I haven't talked to him in weeks and seen him in months. I may be going through withdrawl or maybe I'm just in denial. Buut, I've convinced myself that I don't like him. I'm only jealous of his confidence, mad arteestic skills, style, and oh that HAIR!
I know it's only summer and there are other guys, but none like him. This one's special [:
So. Whaddya think? I think that if he likes me so much, he should call me for once. Just answering his phone would be nice. If that makes him sound jerkish, he probably is. But that makes me sound shallow and that's really bad. Ahh, I don't wanna be shallow! HELP
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If this 'jerk' isn't calling, or emailing, or texting, or communicsting, then yes he is a big fat jerk. I know you have feelings for him and blah, blah, blah. This will be hard but try to think of it as a nice break up. Get refreshed. Go out with your friends at the mall, and look nice. Flirt ALOT!!! There are plenty fishy in the sea. Just don't expect them to come and take a bight. But be careful with the mall thingy, some fishy's bight way to hard.
GOOD LUCK. keepme posted
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Just say, 'He's acting like a jerk.' Then you're not superficial because you aren't passing judgement... (Because you aren't stating that he _is_ a jerk.) But you're still being honest.(Because he is definitely acting like a jerk.)
And... Since we're being honest here... You sound like an extremely sensible 15 year-old with maturity and insight that far surpasses your years. You're absolutely right; if he liked you so much he'd pick up the freakin' phone. And while he might be special, I doubt he's that special. Besides, a special girl like you will find another confident guy with mad art skills, style, and super cool hair... One that knows how to use the phone.
Follow your gut and let this one go. That's my two cents anyway.
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okay.. well you had him reeled in but your letting him back out! you need to start getting his attention again! if you have texting you should text him and just be like "hey." and see if he says anything back.. you know how some guys wont talk to you and you really hope that theyll text you and when they finally do theyre just like "hey you."? theyre trying to get your attention. now its your turn. get his attention. you need to control him. dont let him control you. i know this probably wasnt what you were looking for but i hope this helps some! (:
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