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I need some help in trying to gain back a friend. Our history is pretty, well very, complicated.
About 2 years ago we dated, only for 3 weeks but still. Then we broke up and he promised that we'd "still be friends". Except, much to my dismay, he actually meant it. And our friendship grew from there. We became even closer. Then he sorta started ignoring me for no reason. Then that stopped and we talked again. Then we made a mistake....we hooked up. So up until about 3 months ago, it was continuous hooking up + remaining close friends, then fighting, then not talking, then hooking up again, then fighting, then not talking. Then in February we had a huge fight that pretty much ended it all. Until a few weeks later, when we actually started talking again. Despite all the messiness and our huge fight, we were able to put that all behind us and have at least some semblance of a friendship again. The last time I saw him was on St. Paddy's Day, and things were pretty good between us. We talked a little after that and he even (in his own way) seemed kinda sorry and remorseful for the way he had been acting. Then one night I was talking to him online, and he gave me an attitude and he has been ignoring me ever since.
I left out a lot of the details of stuff that went down between us throughout all those times, but it's just too much to get into. And I'm not looking for reasons as to why he's ignoring me or why he does the things he does, because I don't even think he knows that. His ignoring me is most likely because he's moody and goes through weird phases of who he hangs out with and who he associates himself with. He's done this before, but we've gotten over it before. And I know the past has been rocky and hooking up always changes things, but I don't understand why it's IMPOSSIBLE to be friends again. I've had feelings for him for a long time, but I'm not interested like that anymore. I just want him as a friend again, because I really honestly miss the good friendship that we had.
Now, before anyone says "just get over him, he's not worth it" or "it can't be done, its way past being friends again", just be advised that I know that. And I've heard that before (hell, even from myself). But I guess I'm stubborn and I just refuse to believe that it's completely out of the question to be friends again. I'm totally willing to put all of the ugliness of our past behind us and just look to the future and toward the possible good times.
So what I want to know is:
- What's a good way of at the very least attempting a friendship again?
- How do you get someone to stop ignoring you (like what would be a good thing to say?)
- How do you make someone reason with you in this situation?
Ok...that's all that I can think of for now...
Thanks in advanceee =)
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first of all- if yaall are gonna be friends yaall cant be hooking up.. so if yaall get your friendship back.. dont! no matter what! second- try telling him that you want your friendship back and that you dont want anything to come between yaall anymore and if he ever needed you then you would be there for him.. if he wont talk then ask him what you did because whatever it was you were sorry and you want to fix it.. i hope that it all works out! hope this helps!
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i feel like im not pretty, is there anything i can do to make my self more sexy and pretty
here is my myspace you can look
myspace.com/fallenangel212121 (link)
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you are pretty! can i give you some tips though? 1. listen to music that makes you feel good 2. try straightening your hair (put some shine gel in it so itll look more natural and not fried) and part it more on the side 3. put on some makeup (especially some that will bring out your eyes) 4. wear outfits that you feel good in and hang around people that will compliment you and make you feel good about yourself (not those friends who pick on you but say theyre just kidding!) and last but DEFINITELY not least! (i know youve probably heard this a bazillion times but it works!) to be pretty you have to feel pretty! you dont have to be sexy to feel pretty. im not saying that you cant be naturally sexy.. just dont wear too revealing clothes and be a "little nasty"! dont look to guys to tell you that youre pretty because even if you are they will tell you whatever you want to hear just to get some and you shouldnt have to give yourself up like that to feel good about yourself because youre going to end up feeling worse in the end! hope this helps!!!
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Im fifteen, female, sophomore this fall.
This boy is moving in less than a month and we've only just expressed our feelings for one another. There's an extremely long story from long ago that's not worth writing, but I still don't think he was really that sincere.
I haven't talked to him in weeks and seen him in months. I may be going through withdrawl or maybe I'm just in denial. Buut, I've convinced myself that I don't like him. I'm only jealous of his confidence, mad arteestic skills, style, and oh that HAIR!
I know it's only summer and there are other guys, but none like him. This one's special [:
So. Whaddya think? I think that if he likes me so much, he should call me for once. Just answering his phone would be nice. If that makes him sound jerkish, he probably is. But that makes me sound shallow and that's really bad. Ahh, I don't wanna be shallow! HELP (link)
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okay.. well you had him reeled in but your letting him back out! you need to start getting his attention again! if you have texting you should text him and just be like "hey." and see if he says anything back.. you know how some guys wont talk to you and you really hope that theyll text you and when they finally do theyre just like "hey you."? theyre trying to get your attention. now its your turn. get his attention. you need to control him. dont let him control you. i know this probably wasnt what you were looking for but i hope this helps some! (:
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So, I'm going into my junior year of high school. I'm in this one club that I really love. I applied for a board position and got secretary, (it's not an election, the former board members decide) which I was ok with until I found out something else. There is of course, a president but also two co-vps. One of the vps was on the board already but the other wasn't. The one who wasn't, Bridgette, is sort of the equvalent of me in terms of being dedicated and contributing to the club. What hurts me though is that she's smarter than me and has more friends which is probably the reason she has a higher position than me (again, we are on the same level with being dedicated to the club.) What upsets me the most, though is that I can probably never be president, now. The vp who has already been on the board, Luke, will definitely be president after this year and probably Bridgette too since she is vp this year. There can only be two presidents at a time. So is it totally hopeless for me? What can I do to try to get myself the position senior year? help! (link)
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well if shes about on the same level as you then work hard and show her up! its kind of like a regular student council election without the voting.. does that make sense? you have to be friends with different groups of people (try to be closer with everyone in the club.. especially the adviser and the board this year!) get involved with diff. things.. (try to participate as much as possible! even if you do already try to find new things for yaall to do or find new information for what yaall are doing. everyone will be impressed!).. and i know this sounds bad.. but youve gotta suck up some! im not saying be up their butts but if you see them in the halls say hey. ask how there day is.. good luck!! hope this helps!
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I just downloaded some files on RealPlayer. Whenever I try to open them (either from the downloads or straight from the internet) in iTunes the window for iTunes pops up, but nothing happens. The files don't appear in the window. I know that I have downloaded Real files and put them on iTunes before, but I can't remember how. If someone knows some way that I can either convert the files or just get them on my iPod I would really appreciate it! (link)
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have you tried dragging them over onto your iTunes separate folder (like an iPod or something)? if that doesnt work I usually open them up in my computer and drag them over onto iTunes.
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if there is any on here.....is it a good job that pays well because i saw it on seventeen mag. and i thought id like the job? (link)
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have you seen the website? you should contact the company to see if it would really interest you and find out what kind of people work there...
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i know hes using google earth im not stupid but what program is that in the bottom left hand corner and can you download it for free somewhere and is it compatible for linux/xubuntu
here is the link : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LahSCGeXJ98 (link)
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it looks like they opened up a separate program through browse or something like that and on the bottom it has something to go back and forth... idk. i would ask someone at a computer store like best by or office max or something. sorry!
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Okay So I made a sims 2 story with the pictures you know. And I edited them using paint. AND i saved them . I double checked but when I go to play my game the edited pictures arn't there the old one are? what happened? (link)
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theyre probably saved in paint.
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ok have any of you ever started talking to someone, and suddenly you feel nervous and you dont know whether to smile at them because for fear of looking creepy or to remain having a "serious face" for fear of looking unfriendly, so instead your lips and face start twitching and then you get so embarrassed you cant think and you feel like looking away or putting your hand over your mouth but you cant bc the person is talking to you?
well, that happened to me all day today and its been happening a lot to me lately, so i was wondering do any of you know if there is some deeper reason for it happening?
ahh this question might sound confusing to some of you i know, i know..but if you have an idea of what im talking about, some advice on this subject will be appreciated. (i dont know what im asking anymore lol)
i guess im asking whether i should smile or just remain stoic. and also why i act this way. and how to stop it. (dont say "just dont focus on it" becase its hard not to focus on it when its what the person youre talking to is looking at) thank you. (link)
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no.. this has happened before to me and some of my friends.. a friend of mine whos a doctor said that when your facial muscles twitch its usually due to stress or your body is trying to tell you something (like youre hungry or tired). he also said that sometimes if your body isnt well (like i just said) you can have different emotional feelings at once and your body doesnt konw what to do. try to stay relaxed and listen to your body. if youre hungry eat. if youre tired take a nap. take care of yourself! you deserve it! hope this helps.
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I'm trying to make a new hotmail account but after I put in all of my details etc. it says that there is an error on the site and to try again later. I have been trying for over a week now.
All my other email accounts are working fine but why cant i make a new one?
(I think its called Error 100 or something) (link)
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there may be some sort of error with the website and the connections.. if its doing that choose a different email company. gmail is what i would recommend.
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