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Two Boys
i have a boy in my class who sits beside me and is always flirting and likes me!!! But there is this otha boy sits rite in front of me and i like him and i think he likes me back and everytime the boy beside me flirts with me he gets mad...
please help!?!?
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Hey girly, it seems to me like you have two great guys that like you, but it's not up to them who you choose. It's up to you. You have to ask yourself who do i like more. Who will i have more fun with and most importantly who will i stay with longer? I hope that helps.
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Maybe you should flirt with him back and see if he gets even more mad, and if he says something be like "jealous?" and start sitting next to him and flirt with him! ahhaa :] start talking to him on AIM or whatever you have, and myspace/facebook. whatever you kids use! :]
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You can't really control what they do, but I guess if you wanted the guy beside you to stop flirting with you, you could ask him to stop, or you could just ignore him.
If you want to ask one of them out, here's an answer my friend had that was really good:
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From there:
Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
--Jack
(16/m)
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