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i wanna have sex
i want to have sex and am ready but do not know how to let my bf know... he and i are both 17
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Well dont take this the wrong way or anything but maybe you arent completely ready for sex if you arent comfortable enough to tell your boyfriend. I know you are probably physically wanting it, because every teenager does..but mentally you may not be sure and in those cases its best to wait..
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I don't know where you live, but 17's a fine age to want sex. In the ghetto of Great Britain, 16's the legal age. It may seem stupid taking advice from someone younger than you, but I'm 15, 2 months till I'm 16, and I'm regularly having sex. It took me a year with my boyfriend to be 'ready'. By then, he was definitely ready.
When considering letting him know you have to realise
Unless the guy is really late with hitting puberty, he's going to have been wanting sex for a long time. The suggestion of it happening will probably get him very excited.... so theres no need to over-consider it.
How long have you been together? Have you done any thing like oral sex or any other heavy petting beforehand? If he's let you do other things to him, sex should only be the next step up. You don't have to be together long for sex, but if you have, it will make it more special, and if you've lasted a while, hes going to want it more, and hell react well to the suggestion.
Are you confident?
If you are, and if you've tried foreplay with him, while doing it one time or just making out, try asking it subtly...
"Have you ever thought about....?"
You don't have to have a long talk about it. Sex is natural XD.
If you haven't done foreplay, you might want to think about it before going into sex to figure out what's where :P And it'll be a nice starter.
Otherwise just ask him outright. There's nothing to really lose or gain. He's a guy. To be honest, he probably fantasises about sex. He's probably watched porn. Trust me, don't overthink. Just go right ahead with it sometime. It can be well timed or you can just blurt it out XD.
"WOULD YOU HAVE SEX WITH ME?"
Eassssy.
Good luck, I hope I helped :)
Yours,
FiayieEss
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Hey girl, first i would like to start off by saying that although you may be ready, he may not be. If it turns out that he is ready you should sit him down and start by saying we have been dating for a while now, which i hope you have or you might not be ready to lose your virginity. Then you should say if you're ready and i know im ready, i would like to go to the next step in our relationship. Take a short pause. Then say im ready to have sex.
Thanks and remember to come back for more advice.
volunteergirl
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well... if you wanna have sex... and he wants to have sex... as my friend says... it just happens! =] just get theing heated and see how things go! or just tell him you're ready! but make sure you have protection!!! hope it helped! =]
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17 is kinda young to be having sex because of all the things that can happen but if you really think your ready then just tell your bf maybe he wants to have sex with you too.
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