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Boy Troubles
Okay, so there's this guy in my class who totally hot but he was going out with another girl and pretending to like one of my best friends(he's a playa). I like him but so do a lot of other girls. I don't even think he looks at me unless he's calling me byu the nickname that I hate. What should I do?
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Maybe he doesn't like your look , then change it
maybe he doesnt like how you speak
or what clothes you wear then change
and maybe he is not interested in you . Just leave him and make another boyfriend and then he will know that u dont care about him
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Since he's a player, you really do not want to get involved with this guy. Trust me, I've been there and I learned from my mistake. If you already know he's a player and he's not making any effore to change (which he obviously isn't since he's "pretending" to like your bff), then he isn't going to be any different with you, unfortunately.
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If you totally ignore him then you will find out what interest he has in you.
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To be truthfully honest, I've fallen for this type of guys so many times before. Truth be known, he likes attention, and he will just talk to you and play you. Luckily for me I've gotten out before I got in over my head. I'm not saying you shouldn't like him, but just know when your with him, because he's used to attention, he will be looking at other girls. Maybe not right away, but thats what a player guy does, he sweet talks every girl til he gets what he wants, thens he leaves. I've seen this happen to my friends, and to be honest, it could happen to you too. I know that may not be the answer you want to hear, but I'm not gonna sugarcoat the truth. Just be careful, I've seen people around me get hurt, I wouldn't want that to happen to you or anyone else. Its okay to fantasize about him, but if I were you I would keep him at arms distance, he knows how to play people around him, and thats what he does.
Best of luck to you, just say hi to him, but don't hold out for him, you'll have to wait a long time like forever, or youll just get played. Please be careful.
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