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Should I just tell him?
Okay so...theres this guy I'm interested in, (I'm 14 and he's 15) and we've been talking alot lately, more than a month. We have ALOT in common, and its always easy to talk to him. He said he would like to hang out with me but, I don't really know if he likes me. I heard from someone that he said he likes me but he hasn't told me himself. I don't want to tell him I like him, because if he doesn't like me back then he might want to be friends with me. I feel like I'm in fifth grade again, ugh.
Help?
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Since you're young still, and you've only been talking about a month, I'm going to say don't get too caught up in it, and in your emotions. But what I am going to say is that don't believe other people, you need to hear it from him, and hang out with him. You never know what might happen. Just act normal and be yourself, have fun, you're still young!
Hope I helped. =)
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I'm going to go the opposite way and
tell you just hang out with him and
see what happens. We know he likes
you and you like him. You don't tell
someone you want to hang out with them
if you don't enjoy their company. So
that much you already know.
Get to know each other even better
by hanging out together. If he wants
it to be more he will be comfortable
enough to ask once you've become even
better friends. I know life's short,
but sometimes rushing things isn't the
way to go. :)
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you should just tell him. life is to short to hide your feelings. you have so much to gain if he does turn out to like you, which is sounds like he does. and if you tell him and he doesnt want to be friends anymore hes not a good friend because a true friend likes you for who you are no matter what.if you want some help on how to tell him you like him i'd be more then glad to help you out(over advicenators,im or email).
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good luck!
~Katie
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Just trust me on this one tell him. I always tell a guy if i like them, unless he has a gf. But some of them are jerks and some of them are fine with it and actually do something about it. We all got to get guts at one point or another. At least you wont be wondering at home anymore. Take a chance. Life is much funner when you take a chance.
-hayley
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