My gf iss moving, and I also like this other girl at school, and she said she likes me. So when my gf moves away, should I get together with the one that I like?
karenR answered Sunday April 27 2008, 4:18 pm: Once your girlfriend moves the close
relationship is over. For now anyway.
Keep in touch with her and remain
friends if you can, but long distance
relationships rarely work out.
You are at an age where you need to
be social. Dating and searching for
someone special. You just can't put
your life on hold during your teen
years. No matter how much you may
care for each other. She won't be
there for you nor you for her.
So when she leaves by all means
start dating others. Talk to your
current girlfriend before she leaves
and help her understand there is
nothing else to do but move on.
Don't make her think you'll be
waiting or that she shouldn't
start dating herself. You never
know what might happen in the
future, but for now you need to
be a teen. Permanent steady
relationships come later in life. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xlovexx463 answered Sunday April 27 2008, 1:37 pm: When your girlfriend moves away, are you two breaking up? Or better question to ask, are you two already broken up? Because it isn't fair to her that you are sitting there waiting for her to go so you can get together with someone else. Girls aren't "Plan B"s.
Anyways, give it time if you actually cared about your girlfriend. If you didn't really actually care about her, which is the vibe I'm getting from this question, then sure by all means go for "Plan B".
Please don't ever refer to girls as back-up plans. It's very rude in my opinion.
EDIT: Thanks for the rating. So if I don't tell you what you want to hear you're just going to rate me low? That's real nice kid. If you want to think of girls as disposable, by all means go on ahead. I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear because it isn't right. I have my opinion and you have yours. [ xlovexx463's advice column | Ask xlovexx463 A Question ]
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