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Im really confused if i really love someone or not.
Actually, Im a girl but..I think I like girls too.
I think im a bisexual. I really like this girl (I think she's straight), like i keep thinking about her, but don't know if she likes me. When I sort of look at her, it feels like she's looking at me too. But the problem is, I really can't see well, so I don't know for sure. And I'm really scared to tell her if i like her or not because Im not really confortable if she knows that Im a bisexual. I'll have to add I walk like a boy and is a tomboy, but my behavior is not different from a girls. I really need help, should I go and tell her? I would tell her, but Im scared how she'll treat me after I tell her and Im really not into it when people tease bisexuals. By the way, Im 13 years old.
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Since the world and some of its
inhabitants can be cruel, I'd
advise you not to tell her. If
you think she is straight then
it would serve no purpose.
She may be fine with it, she may
also be creeped out by it. If
you ever have a big fight, she
could tell others to be mean
and make your life hell.
13 is kind of young to be labeling
yourself a bisexual. I know a lot
of gay people say they knew at young
age they were. The fact that you only
"think" you know makes me say hold
of on any announcements. Even to
friends. :)
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Since you are young you may not neccessarily be bi, you could just be in a sexually curious state. Lots of people just like to test the waters with a different sex and then decide they are straight. You really have to decide if you do like girls before you tell people because people are going to tease you and they are going to be really mean. People often tease people of different sexual orientations because they are intimidated my them. Really really decide if you like girls before you tell, because it is a huge burden to handle and if you were just curious then you are carrying it for no reason. But if you really feel as though you are attracted to her and like girls, then it is probably best for you to go for it and follow your heart. I mean you don't want to be living a lie by not following along with your sexual orientation. Be true to yourself, that is the most important thing.
Hope I Helped.
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Well basically, there's no such thing as bisexuality.
You're either straight, or gay/lesbian.
And since you're only 13 this could be a stage of confusion.
Most people discover their sexual preferences when they are 16 or older.
At the moment you just sound confused.
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right the best thing to do is to ask a frinead if she is looking at you if so say to her why are you looking at me do you like me and see what she says
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