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What the f*&k do I say after I ask?!
14/M
After I ask a girl out (hopefully I get a response yes) what do I say?
-I'm not gonna say "awesome thx so much" Im not that stupid, but I'm not smart enough to think of what to say next. Any advice is appreciated.
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The VERY best way to ask someone out, is to have a date and activity in mind. It saves you awkwardness and trouble later if you can just say "Great! How about this Friday? Dinner at 6pm?" or something to that effect.
Having a plan, even if it doesn't work out for the girl's schedule, it is the very best way to let her know you are serious and excited about spending time with her.
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Are you asking her out or asking her to be with you? Or, does it make no differnece ikn your case?
If you are literally asking her out then...
You: D you want to go out with em sometime?
Her: Oh... um, yeah.
You: Cool. How about the movies? (or wherever you want to take her)
OR instead you can just say
YOU: Cool. Um, can I have your phone number so we can talk more about where we shoud go?
If you want to ask her out meaning you want to ask her to be with you then maybe you should say somnething like
Hey, want to hang out tomorrow during nutrition or afterschool? (that's an example)
Basically after she says yes, you havr to follow up. Ask her whereshe would like to go and when she can go out with you or hang out. Or get her number so you can talk more later :-)
Hope I was helpful.
And I hope she says yes too :-)
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Generally, the next step should probably be to schedule a date of some sort. If you're expecting a yes, I would advise having a place to take her in mind before hand.
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Hey!
Well what i think is typically cute for a guy to do/say after he asks a girl out is..
you-(NAME) will you be my girlfriend
girl-yes or whatever she says
you-kiss her on the forehead and say im so happy that i have you now or im so happy that we're together now.
if your considering mine good luck!
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Quite honestly I don't think you have to plan anything in particular. Something as simple as "Great" or hugging her. When my boyfriend asked me out he kissed me when I said yes (well, I said "okay, we should" because his exact wording was, 'we should date'). But that may or may not fit your particular situation. Just go with the flow =)
Best of luck! :]
-LM
[16/f]
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