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How stupid...
I'm 15 years old and a freshman in high school. I haven't done anything with a guy, and I'm totally cool with that. Lately a lot of people have randomly been asking me about my experience with that stuff and guys, and are really shocked to find out that I haven't done anything. A lot of girls around me are doing this and that with guys, and it looks distasteful, almost like they are trying to prove something by sticking their tongue down someone's throat. It's not that I think it's disgusting or gross when people do that sort of thing, but personally, I'm not really looking for anyone right now. If I'm not looking for someone to really be involved with, I'm not looking to be kissed. End of story. People almost make me feel bad about myself, though, when I say I'm just not into that right now. I have a lot of friends, and am comfortable with myself, but I can't help but feel stung when someone looks at me like I have three heads. I've said "I don't really want to talk about it" if someone asks me about what i've done and they go "ohhhh wow nothing?!..WHAT?!"
grrr. How can ignore these people and not feel like a weirdo about this.
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I've felt this way...sometimes I ask myself if a boy would even be willing to do things like that with me...even though physical stuff with a dude is against my morals at my age. (16) The thing is: I tell myself that no guy has every made such an offer towards me because he knows I have too much class. Guys look for girls who are eaaassssy. It's disgusting and degrading, but you are really fortunate if a guy thinks enough of you not to offer you a night of"fun".
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More power to ya!
You really just have to ignore them and think about this: Don't feel bad or left out because people are doing stuff. In the end, they're the ones being called whore and sluts behind their backs. Sometimes, they're even the ones who end up with STDs and wishing they were you. I'm sure any normal person would rather be called a prude as opposed to a whore.
Just continue to stay strong and respect yourself like you already are. What really matters is how you view yourself. As long as you stay true to you and you know the truth, that's all that should matter.
If people keep bothering you, just tell them exactly what you said right now.. that you're not looking for that right now and you are content with yourself. Say that you're not a prude, you just don't do that kind of stuff.
Anyways, screw what they think. You shouldn't be ashamed. If anything, they should probably be ashamed of themselves lol.
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You are being very smart right now. Good for you! Other people should be more like you because you know how you feel about something and don't feel the need to prove it to anyone else. The other girls don't understand how dumb they are being.
Don't feel like a weirdo, feel smart. What you don't realise is that there are infact alot of people like you. You just don't hear about them because they don't boast what they do. While the people that do boast are those that are insecure about themselves.
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