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Question Posted Tuesday April 15 2008, 2:18 am

how do i tell my best friend that the guy we both like, like's me and we're kind of talking?

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LOL_x0x answered Thursday April 24 2008, 6:54 pm:
I agree with Sima, why jeopardize a friendship over a guy? Is it REALLY worth it =[


-Laura. (15-f)

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thelaura answered Tuesday April 15 2008, 8:38 pm:
As you probably know, it can jeopardize your friendship, as some people feel strongly about friends coming before boyfriends/girlfriends.
If your friend is understanding and you're willing to risk that, just come clean. Ask her if she'd mind if anything happened between you and the guy. and actually listen to what she has to say. You can't blame her if she's not too keen on the idea, but if you get round to dating this guy, let your friend know you'll always be there for her and nothing will change that, and you won't drift apart because you're seeing a guy - as that's what most friends worry about.

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Sima answered Tuesday April 15 2008, 8:17 pm:
Wow, you'd honestly do that to your best friend? You'd choose a guy over her and potentially would come closer to hurting her feelings? Sorry, I just really had to put that out there.

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TheAnnie answered Tuesday April 15 2008, 8:15 pm:
well, definetly tell just nicely, don;t brag about it.

Too bad you can;t show her. But, both would hurt her a little.

If you guys aren't "serious" then there is no need to tell her know unless you guys like go out.

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