The only thing that me and my boyfriend ever do is fight, and i am sick of it, so what do i do?
Also there is this other guy that i like so i am wondering if i should go out with him, and i don't really know if he likes me. How do i know if he does?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? tsz answered Friday April 11 2008, 10:53 pm: It all depends on, if you really like this person. If your willing, to sit down and adress the problem, and let him know that the arguments have to stop, because its bothering you, and its pushing you away. If you think that you would be better off without him, maybe you should explore your options. But also think about his positives sides, and not so much the negative. If his postives outway the negative, maybe you should hold on to him, and try to sort it out. Because you definatley dont want to leave someone you love for someone you like. These decisions always are tricky. So whatever you do, i hope you think thoroughly about the whole situation, and make a good choice!
MsKashia answered Friday April 11 2008, 5:15 pm: Honestly the fact that you're thinking about another guy while you’re in your current relationship tells me you don't really want to be in this relationship at all. My best guess to why you and your boyfriend fight all the time is 1 of 2 reasons: 1) You both are looking for an out or 2) You have reached that point where the "honeymoon" is over and it's time to work to have a stable and successful relationship. Relationships are NOT easy and to be able to be happy in one you can't settle, you have to be truly in love with one another or wasting your and the other persons time. [ MsKashia's advice column | Ask MsKashia A Question ]
cloudy_conscience answered Friday April 11 2008, 5:07 pm: Arguing is very normal in relationships, especially if you have been dating for a while. The longer you date the more you will agrue, but if you feel that you argue more than anything else the maybe it is just time for a break in the relationship. Or maybe you guys just aren't meant to be, tell him you need some space and once you get your space and you feel like you miss him let him know and see where it goes. But if you don't then go for the new relationship.
samantha22 answered Friday April 11 2008, 4:47 pm: its normal to have little arguments in a relationship ..the problem is if you cant ever resolve anything by talking to each other about the situation..then maybe you just need some time apart and do some thinking..if u are around each other 24/7..then that could be the problem too..and if your even thinking about another guy and what he thinks about you..then maybe you are with the wrong person..and need to find someone else that makes you happy and feel loved..if you really care about the person your with..that should be the only person that matters.. [ samantha22's advice column | Ask samantha22 A Question ]
relax, take a deep breath and try to talk to him calmly. try to get to the bottom of your figting. think about the things you guys fight about. try to solve that problem or better yet stop getting to that subject which you guys always argue of. If you can't stop fighting then maybe you guys should take a break. [ TheAnnie's advice column | Ask TheAnnie A Question ]
dropbeats12 answered Friday April 11 2008, 1:39 pm: well for now i think you guys may be getting a little sick of each other but no need to move on. Why don't you talk things out to him and don't try to feel bad if you tell him this because he prolly feels the same and while going with your boyfriend it is easy to get attracted to other guys but you should stay faithful(:
and you'll prolly know if you get a vibe from him whenever he talks to you [ dropbeats12's advice column | Ask dropbeats12 A Question ]
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