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I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm completely lost right now. I used to be a straight A student just half a year ago. Now, I'm messed up. I can't concentrate. I eat all the time. I take long naps and procrastinate on homework. I'm moody, I feel suicidal, worthless. Pathetic. I feel like I'm one of those people who will never amount to anything. My parents don't give me attention anymore and they're giving up on me. I feel helpless. I have all advanced classes and find myself fading in ability to work and everything else. I feel like I can't do it. And just a couple of months ago, Ive been getting As and Bs. Now I'm slipping by the day. I don't do my work. Nothing. I'm lazy. Or I have A.D.D. I don't know. How can I at least try to get my life back on track before Ive messed it up really badly? I'm not failing or anything. But I know I could do better. But I just...can't. I mean..I got my first bf this year...but I don't think that could be the cause of it? It's like a midlife crisis..please help. :( (link)
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Yes, depression is probably what it is. There are alot of people, who suffer from depression and dont even know it. Something little could turn into something so much bigger than what it is, and you wouldnt even realize it. If you think its a very serious matter, you could go to the doctor for it. Or even get a shrink. It may sound crazy, but shrinks do nothing but benefit you. Stuff you cant get out, a shrink could. If you want to try to start at home, first you could dedicate an hour more, of studying time, and doing your work. You could cut back on unhealthy foods. I read in a health magazine, that lots of junk food, or people who continually eat, it can cause them depression. So maybe cut out some of that. Talk to your parents. Let them know how you feel, tell them you feel as if they arent giving you the time of day. And work on from there. Get invovled in physical activities, or extra curricular clubs and stuff. It helps keep your mind off certain stff. But as i said before, if you think the situation is more to it, than what i just said, you can always see you doctorr.
-Hope I Helped!! :)*
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The only thing that me and my boyfriend ever do is fight, and i am sick of it, so what do i do?
Also there is this other guy that i like so i am wondering if i should go out with him, and i don't really know if he likes me. How do i know if he does? (link)
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It all depends on, if you really like this person. If your willing, to sit down and adress the problem, and let him know that the arguments have to stop, because its bothering you, and its pushing you away. If you think that you would be better off without him, maybe you should explore your options. But also think about his positives sides, and not so much the negative. If his postives outway the negative, maybe you should hold on to him, and try to sort it out. Because you definatley dont want to leave someone you love for someone you like. These decisions always are tricky. So whatever you do, i hope you think thoroughly about the whole situation, and make a good choice!
-I hope i helped you! :))*
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my boyfriend & i have been together now for about 5 months.
i am his first serious relationship since his last ex. & they dated for 20 months. they lost their virginities to eachother & everything.
just here recently, has made a year since they broke up. & she was the one who broke up with him, because he cheated on her.
my boyfriend & i made plans to go to a club one night & she was there. she kept giving me awful looks & staring at us. i've seen her before & she's never really acted that way to me.
then one day she sends me a message on myspace trying to say that i was talking bad about her to her friends & telling them that they couldn't be around her.
she & i get in a big argument & my boyfriend basically tells me to leave her alone.
my boyfriend & i go to different schools, but his ex & him go to the same school. & he told me that she came up & was talking to him really bad about me & that she apologized to him & everything. & he accepted her apology.
i'm not sure what i'm asking but i need your opinions on this situation. i've never started anything with this girl & i blocked her from my myspace & everything & i don't understand why she is always trying to talk to my boyfriend.
i mean, is she jealous? because she has a blog on her myspace that is specifically aimed at how bad she hates my boyfriend because he cheated on her, but i just don't understand. (link)
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She obviously loved him alot. And to see him so happy with another girl, it bothers her. If you havent been in that position, you couldnt even imagine how that feels. To really care for someone, and they basically "slap you in the face" by going out and cheating. Its the worst feeling someone could ever feel, and i wouldnt want anyone to feel that way, because ive been in that position before, it doesnt feel good. He cheated on her and disrespected her, and she hates the fact you two are together. Shes jealous that you have something she doesnt. Be glad shes jealous though, if your man really cares and loves you, you have no worries. Even though he once loved her, thats gone now and its in the past, your his main squeeze now. Dont pay her any mind when she pulls her little "elementary" stunts by messaging you on myspace. She obviously talks to him alot, because she wants what she used to have with him, that connection. She wants small conversation, to lead into bigger conversation, and that friendship to keep growing into a relationship. But if your man is good, he wont allow it. You have nothing to worry about.
-I honestly do hope i helped :))*
[[Tsz]]
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What would be the best position if you like sex more rough then gentle? what gives the guy the deepest penetration and what would would pleasure him the most or be best for both us? (link)
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I would say be gentle; and like the person below me said, try being on top. It would probably pleasure you both that way.
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