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my friend's being a wretch
16/f. My friend's liked my boyfriend for the past year and I didn't know it. She's liked him before he was my boyfriend. And that was about 4 months ago. If I had known, I wouldn't have went out with him right away...I wouldn't feel comfortable with her liking him and all. Now that he's my boyfriend..she tries in EVERY way to flirt with him and make me jealous. But luckily, he doesn't really like her (even as a person) so nothing's going on. Yet sometimes, when I tend to piss him off for the stupidest reasons, he flirts with her, making an attempt to make me jealous. And she enjoys it. They sometimes even form a little group without me..discussing what my boyfriend and I do. (Nothing sexual...but he makes it seem that way) so there are always these lies floating around..and rumors..that i did things with him. And I find myself unable to trust anyone now, and doubting my relationship with my boyfriend. It's as if I have no privacy with him...as if everyone knows, like I'm a celebrity or something. It really does bother me. But yes. The girl..she's been my friend for a little while now. And I've considered her one of my closest friends. And well..she makes nasty remarks..and whenever I tell her something..she promises not to tell anyone..and still does. I don't know what to do. She's lowering my self esteem..and I feel really jealous when she talks to my boyfriend. What can I do? I'm sorry this is long and confusing. ;_; I'm older than them..they're all 15...maybe that makes a huge difference..
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i suggest meeting new people. your bf shouldnt be treating you like that like mslovely said mabye you should end it. and your friend this happens all the time some one pretemds to be your friend in order to get something out of you. u should find a new friend b/c your friend is just faking. i know my advice is probaly hurtful, but is the truth. your friend is sick she is going to try and destroy you mentally so. if you let her win she will control your life. and it doesnt matter if she has things in common with you this is what some people do they pretend to have things in common with you dont tell her anything your friend is a sick person dont hang out with her trust me i have friends like that and i know what your going through and i know its hard but you just cant let what your friend does or says get the best of you.
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well first off, i would tell your boyfriend that this bothers you and if he continues to do it, there might be an end? he shouldn't treat you like that at all! that is completely wrong.
as for your friend, she should know better, tell her that if she wants to tell people fine, but you won't be telling her stuff anymore, and there should be some privacy between you and your bf, that is normal. if i were you i would tell your friend to back off. she is not dating him, there for stop flirting. don't let her know she gets under your skin, she is just looking for a reaction. as for the self asteem, don't let her get you down, you are an amasing wonderful pretty person! no one should make you feel this way
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