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I need advice
ok so i had sex for the first time and bled i no thats normal now how long before it stops hurting ? like will it hurt if i have sex a second time?
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It is going to hurt probably the next few times you have sex. Just until your body actually gets used to, but it will get easier and it will hurt less and less until finally no pain at all.
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Well I'd like to say "Congratulations" first off. You sound a lil skeptical about the situation altogether. But that's rather normal. Secondly, there is no definite timeframe for the pain. It actually depends on the type of sex you've indulged in and whether the penis was much bigger (length and width) than your vagina. As for will it hurt the second time you have sex? Probably yes, but it should be a comfort you by knowing, that it should less the more you do it. However, don't rush into anything either. Your vagina will only relax as much as you are. You'll learn "pain can be pleasure" on some days soon enough though lol. But you have to enjoy the act first rather than constantly thinking about it. You'll learn and it'll be great. Move at your OWN pace and Best Wishes.
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Well I know how it feels and It will hurt and it will bleed...It could bleed untill you cherry is fully poped and as for when it will stop hurting the first few ties will hurt but the more you do it (not saying go out and have sex so it wont hurt) the less it will hurt in time. Not trying to be gross but your hips might have to move and you hole streched....
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Whether or not you bleed depends less on the number of times you had sex in the past then how ready your body was.
In order for penetration to happen without tearing anything, you have to go about it properly. By this I mean turned on, your panties completely wet, and relaxed, so nothing down there is tense.
Water-based lubricants are also very helpful. You can buy this at the pharmacy or at a sex shop and it helps the penis to enter your vagina without tears. And always remember to get water based if he is wearing a condom - anything oil-based will cause it to tear.
Likely, the second time you have sex you will both be a little more experienced. Buy some lube, relax, and go slow - this way sex should hurt a lot less.
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It'll probably hurt until you get used to it. There's no determined amount of times before then, but the more you do it, the less it'll hurt.
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