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Im so jelous of my bestfriend.
I have a bestfriend her name is Cassie. Shes so perfect. Shes pretty,skinny. Alll guys want her. When im with her i feel really fat =/. im 13 and i weigh about 145? People tell me i dont look it at all. but i think i do. Especially when im with her. And walking down the hall ways in school with her. Guys go crazy. calling her name and winking and stuff. then theres me like. ugh. What can i do to to stop my jelousyy?.
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Awee hugs!
that was how i felt with my friend sam,
Listen hun, you are perfect too!
please don't try to be like her just for the attention. you are perfect the way you are,
Make alist about what is good about you, and read the list every day.
ex)
1. I am pretty
2. I am good at ___
3. I can do ___
DOn't try to better your self and try to make your self better than her, she may get the guys and the attention but you are just as good as her, show them all that you can be just as great as her
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It's not how others perceive you that's important. It's how you perceive yourself.
You need to increase your self-esteem and stop thinking conscious thoughts about yourself.
Don't compare yourself to others, because it will lead to second thoughts.
Think good thoughts about yourself. I trust that you have talents that she doesn't have. Use those talents to make you appreciate yourself more.
Jealousy is an ugly thing that destroys friendships unintentionally. Don't let it happen to you.
Like I told another girl, the teenage years suck, but they only make up a small portion of your life. The world will not end for you unless you say it will. Help make your life better by trying to make the best of it.
Always remember: There are 6 billion people on this planet, and no one is exactly alike. Be proud of that - you are unique.
If you need anymore help, feel free to ask. ^_^
Best Regards,
Mariah
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Over your junior high years your going to change alot. Become a butterfly out of the cacoon. Go for a run and tone up a bit, or join a sport. Knowing your size you probably have some pretty big boobs girl, so flaunt them. Guys at my school acctualy go for people your size more often then a Cassie like girl because you have nice assests. Try wearing a thong too, you probably have a cute butt. Flaunt whatt you have, dont try and get rid of it!
Hope I helpedd!
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