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Best Friend?
So i have been best freinds with this girl (erika) for 5 years, we have always been close, and we always have fun and i could always go to her for help, and trusted her, and believed she was a realy good friend, well last summer she realy betrayed me over and over again, but i mean we were best freinds and i love her - so i forgave her, because i believe in forgiveness . altthough inever realy felt the same with her( im not a lesbian lol) okay but i use to smoke, get high, and drinnk a few years back, and she didnt smoke, but now i have changed alot , and just stopped smoking, and getting high, and NOW she is geting high ALOT, like everyday and coming to school high and smoking in school, and to be honest i realy dnot like it, its wierd but i dontl ike being around her when she smokes , and its just kind of annoying, and she has cheated on her bf ( her x now) , and she acts like its nothing and i dont like that either, it seems like shes careless about EVERYTHING that would seem important to me -- im just confused of what to do..so any advice is appreciate
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Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help
you should talk to her and ask why she is acting
that way and maybe she has a problem that maybe
you can help! Sometimes people get high and smoke
if they have a problem like at home ,school or
some where else! If she dosen't have a problem
maybe she is changing her personality people
sometimes change over a time. Don't be confused
it's not your fualt how your friend acts.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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ok so you know what shes going through you where there too and getting high can be really hard to stop i did never do that but people told me its hard so be a good friend and help her she will thank you for it,hope i helped
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Obviously you went through a phase where you thought you were bad to the bone. And now she's going through that phase. Eventually, she'll get over it. But if she doesn't, just let her know (without lecturing her) that you are worried about her. Let her know about some of the reasons why you stopped and maybe you can convince her to stop as well. It's one thing to get high every once and awhile, but when it's your life, there's a problem. Just talk to her about it, she should be willing to listen.
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