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over protective parents
hey
my bf and i have been together now for about 9 days
my parents dont know and theyre really over protective
but i dont know how to tell them!
they wont understand and my bf rly wants me to go to his house and stuff.
how can i tell them thats the least harmful as possible?
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Well i would first start the conversation when there both in a good mood and i would tell both of them at the same time. I would tell them that before they say somthing to listen to you untell your done. Just start by saying that you meet a relly nice/cute guy and he is your bf and tell them that you want to go to his house to hang out you could start by making a compromise with them like only going to his house when his parents are home or somthing like that. Talk very assuring and if they do butt in with what your trying to say weight for them to stop talking and just keep tring to have them losten there rain and dont talk back to them act responsiblele!!
Hope my advice will help...
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Depending on your age, you may want to let them meet him first, him come to your house or something like that, maybe have your parent(s) and him and his parents(s) meet up somewhere to be introduced and go from there.
Honestly, would you want your daughter going to some guys house that you don't even know him nor his parents? The possibility would be much higher if they were all introduced.
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Some parents aren't cool with their kids dating at a young age, but how old are you? You should sit down and talk to them about it. Let them know that you are mature enough to handle the relationship and that you'll be smart about it. Maybe they will understand, maybe not but you have to tell them the truth. You don't want them to find out and be all angry with you so just tell them. They just want what's best for you and that's all. Good luck with everything!
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try asking them and see what they say.if they still say no just guilt trip them and say "would you rather have me at a party till all hours of the night where i will be drinking and doing drugs?"that always works for me.
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ask if he could come over for a couple hours to meet them.
hope helped.i also had this very same problem and this is just like what i did to go out with my current boyfriend.
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