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hey guys:
i have no choice to do this for advices, i have an older sis, she is married but now she came back to live with me and my parents cause of some reason. 1st of all she decided to marry EARLY b/c she said she found her love of life, and have a kid rite now, she dropped her college b/c of him and her kid, she made her choice!!!!!!! well now she decided to cont with her education so she came back home so my parents could help her take care of her kid! but thats not the onlything she want, since i follow my parents will i go to college i be the BEST I COULD possiblly beening, but my parents seems like her a whole alot better,i need a car to drive to skool and im gonna pay for it, all my parents do its use their credit (since i dont got none) now she saw me gonna get new car, she want one too, and lab top, new car and want my dad to pay for her insureance too, i mean i think its her own fault that she made bad choice from the begining and now she is commin back ask my parents for whole alot of help
and my parents arnt rich at all working family as well but she its just keep askin askin and i dunno how am i gonna deal with her !!!!!!!!!!!!! any thing would be nice thx guys for reading this long note
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I agree with Razhie.
Yah, she's needing a helping hand from your parents, but she's needing it in order to make a better life for her child.
When you move away from home and have kids, especially if you do so when you are young, going to college isn't near as easy as one may think. It's hard to juggle a baby, a home, bill paying, and schooling.
Sometimes you HAVE to ask for help. Sometimes, you need a whole lot of help and support from your family.
Yah, she needs a car. She needs means to go to college, she needs a car to have means to transport her baby, she needs insurance to legally drive that car, and she probably needs a lap top for college studies. She needs the help of your parents to provide a good living environment so she CAN attend college. She needs the help of your parents to look after her child so she CAN attend college.
Your parents are helping her because they want to, or else they would have turned them away.
If your going to fret and stew over this, try to keep that baby in mind, who is innocent and helpless and deserving of a decent shake at life.
Also keep in mind that you can take comfort in this situation. Why? If you ever get down and out, Mom and Dad will help you get back on your feet again.
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Deal with her by declaring it 'not your problem'
Yes, it's a pain in the ass that your parents treat her differently then they treat you. But she is different, she has a child and she is floundering. They are trying to support her, perhaps only for thier grandchild's sake, and although that might rub you the wrong way, it is thier decision and there isn't a thing you can do about it except take a deep breath and accept it.
Your parents will either help her, or not help her. It's best if you just keep your mouth shut about it. It is entirely up to them.
Just focus on doing the best you can do for yourself. Nothing else really matters. You need to learn to let this kind of thing go, it is out of your control.
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