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What should I do?
Well I hooked up with this guy and found out he has a girlfriend the next day so what should I do, what should I say to him? does this make me a slut I feel disguisted with myself that I affilated myself with him.
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Your not a slut. you didn't know he had a girlfriend and it's his fault for going out with you when he was already dating. You have nothing to be disgusted about with ourself but now that you know he has another girlfriend, I think you should dump him.
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Its not your fault you didn't know about the girlfriend. But now that you DO know, I would say dump him. Because if you hang around with him a lot more, and start liking eachother, imagine how not only the other girl would feel (terrible) but what she would do, and all the nasty names you'd be called. I would just tell the guy its not a great idea to be technically cheating on your girlfriend, and maybe just be friends and see how it goes down the road? Hope something helped, good luck. :]
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If you didn't know he had a girlfriend, you can't really consider yourself a slut. That's his fault for leaving something like that out. But then again - he's a guy so of course he'd leave that out because he knows if he doesn't, he'll never get that piece of ass.
Just don't say anything to him. It'll just create unncessary drama & it's not worth it. If you make him mad, he'll probably slander your reputation & cause you tons of problems. Just have better judgement next time.
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First off: Don't feel disgusted with yourself. If you should be disgusted wth anybody, it's HIM and not YOU.
I don't think this makes you a 'slut', because you didn't know he was in a relationship. I think it makes him a jerk for not telling you.
What I would say to him, is something like: "Listen, I know we hooked up, but it's not going to happen again. You HAVE A GIRLFRIEND and failed to tell me. You're in a relationship, and I'm not just going to ruin it. So, don't expect anything more than a friendship from me (if even that)."
-Laura. (15-f)
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