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Friend get BF=Friend become Perky Narcissist?! WTF?
Ok, so my friend has become serious with her BF. AND SHES COMPLETELY BETRAYED WHO SHE IS!!! Shes like super perky and totally self-centered all of the sudden. She used to be super nice and caring with a bit of goth-ness to her. Now all she can talk about how happy/lucky she is and completely ignores my problems or anything i want to talk about. I know she loves her BF, i'm not saying they should break up, but how can i tell her about this without looking like a bitch?
This Perky Narcissist is not the girl who used to be my friend.
I want my friend back =(
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You are a selfish, depressive, typical gothic, bad friend, retard. I hope your friends dump you in your dumpy selfish world so you can cram all the backward goth clothes up your black hole. You are the bitch in this friendshitp. Maybe she is not a big lesbo like you.
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seriously..
you ever heard the expression "misery love company"?
it looks like you just lost some company.
sorry to hear that your friends happy. /sarcasm/
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You are so right. I dont know what I am "f" talking about. You have all the right in the world to use VULGAR, TRASH language since that is where you are from. You shouldnt ask for advice since you know it all. Everything is wrong with everyone but you, because you were raised by the most loving "beings?" on the planet you are from. Have a nice life in rehab someday.;)
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Ugh.
I know how this is.
I've been threw this with plentyy of friends.
Thing is, not much you can do when they're 'in love'.
Yes, you can talk to them about it.
It's just the way they're reacting because they think they have the best thing in the world.
Just talk to her about it though.
She shouldn't think your a bitch, just tell her that it's upsetting you because you feel like you're losing the way your friend is over a boy.
I'm sure she'll understand if she's a friend.
When you fall in love, you'll know exactly what I'm talking about.
I'm sure you even do, but I'm sure everything will turn out fine. :]
And trust me, when girls get a boyfriend they like so much, they'll definetly act more perky and self-centered.
It's just a girl being a girl.
Haha.
I hope I helped hun! :]
If you need anymore advice, just ask anytime. :D
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I think you'd be just fine saying it exactly to her like you did here. If she doesn't understand then she's not worth even hanging out with. That's not what you want to hear but if she thinks that her boyfriend is so great, then let her be with him, I bet you have a lot of other friends who would more than willingly be happy to listen to you and help you out. Obviously she's just too caught up with her boyfriend to notice that you are trying to tell her something. Write her a note or call her and tell her exactly how you said everything here and tell her you're not meaning to be rude but you just want her back without him getting in the way.
Good luck.
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