thelaura answered Thursday March 6 2008, 1:58 pm: How would you feel if you were his girlfriend and you found out he'd been cheating for months with another girl.
Be the bigger, better person and refuse to do anything with him any more. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
MissxJacky answered Wednesday March 5 2008, 3:48 pm: Hm, well, if you does have a girlfriend, maybe you shouldn't be more then friends.
It's really up to you, it's probably the wrong thing to do since how he has a girlfriend.
I'd say you can still stay friends with him even though it is hard, I know.
The thing I don't understand is if you and him were more then friends why did he go off and get a girlfriend?
Maybe this guy is too good to be true, or maybe he just doesn't know what he wants.
Whether I'm right or wrong, is besides the point.
You should talk to him about it and ask him what he wants.
Also, think about what you want.
I hope I helped hun! xx [ MissxJacky's advice column | Ask MissxJacky A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Wednesday March 5 2008, 3:46 pm: Put yourself in her shoes then ask yourself this question. Would you want you to continue this relationship? I highly doubt it.
Also, if he were to break up with her for you, 9 times out of 10 you WILL be in her shoes.
Razhie answered Wednesday March 5 2008, 1:46 pm: It is up to you.
If you think the fact he is 'being with' you while he has a girlfriend is as immature and disgusting as I do, you should probably stop.
But since you found this out months ago and are still a little more then friends with him, I suppose it doesn't bother you.
That is okay, just don't expect other people to share your opinion about this. If he is seeing you behind his girlfriends back and you are allowing it, most people will not be impressed. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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